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Search Results: become more of a jerk
How nice is too nice when it comes to guys' treatment of women?
I think most people will have heard the theory that girls 'love jerks' and 'hate nice guys' either on GaG or elsewhere online. This has led plenty of guys to ask if they need to treat women worse (or to just be more...
Riverock
Yoda Age: 32 How does a nice guy become a jerk to get a girlfriend?
I'm 26 and never had a girlfriend and never been on a date. I want a girlfriend, but I'm a nice guy and it just doesn't work. I want to change my personality and become a jerk so girls will like me more. How do I do this?...
johnbackerson
Xper 5 Age: 36 Do girls regret friendzoning nice guys and dating jerks and assholes as their maturity increases with age?
So my situation is a bit common among people where this 18 y/o girl friendzoned me and is madly in love with her ex who has cheated on her twice before. Upon searching about her ex, let me add here that guy usually has...
Hamiii
Xper 5 Age: 30 Right after break up, ex is more active on social media and with mutual acquaintances than ever?
For background, we ended on very bad terms after he picked a fight and started acting like a jerk based on assumptions he made about me. He asked that we not speak anymore. We play in the same community based game, so we...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why Girls 'Friendzone' Guys
The friendzone. A term that has become popular in recent years. I personally see it all over my media sites, and I normally see guys talking about being friendzoned by a girl that they were perusing. Now, as a girl, I...
SaraLovesUnicorns
Xper 5 Age: 28 Where Men AND Women Are Going Wrong About The Whole 'Nice Guy' Thing
Most of us have heard the typical feminist narrative on the internet phenomena 'nice guy': - he's not that nice - he's only pretending to be nice to get into your knickers - he isn't assertive - he isn't attractive - he...
Anonymous
(30-35) The Irony of 'Nice Guys'
I'm sure most of us have heard of the 'nice guy always finishing last'. Women being demonized by proxy for always giving their attention to the cheating, abusive 'assholes' while leaving hte 'nice guy' in the friend zone....
Is he loosing interest?
hello so I've been in a new school for 4 months now at first I had a crush on someone and he appears to be in my car... We insult EACHOTHER all the time (playfully) and we are known to be starting WW3. He used to talk to...
Anonymous
(18-24) Has it become trendy to be tolerant?
It seems like some people aren't sincere in their tolerance and are just doing it to be liked. You know, showing off how many gay/black/disabled/whatever friends they have. Having knee-jerk reactions to differing...
astrOnaut01
Xper 7 Age: 29 How to regain confidence?
when i was a little bit younger i was popular and have a lot of confidance , but some of my closest friends betrayd me and my family is so fucked up that my friends were everything to me and the only boy i ever loved were...
Anonymous
(25-29) Six MORE Things You Learn From Losing A Lot of Weight
Here are six more things you learn from losing a lot of weight. If you would like to know what the first 6 were, you can read part I here:...
Anonymous
(36-45) And So The World Moves On. . .
When I was born, my parents were young and poor. My Father was a young and promising programmer always looking forward to his next endever, be it at home or at work. My Mother was a young women, with her eye set on...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I deal with the fact that my boyfriend suddenly turned into a complete jerk?
I have been with him for over a year now. The first few months were (obviously) incredible. He was so easygoing, fun, sweet, and down-to-earth. He rarely ever snapped, yelled, or said a harsh word. He provided a good...
Anonymous
(30-35) WHAT DO I ACTUALLY DO FML?
So i'm in grade 10 atm, and my current boyfriend I met in year 7, and nothing relly happened until Year 8 and we first went out, it wasn't serious it was just young stuff and I remeber dumping him for the first time...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why The Nice Guy May Be The Worst Guy
Let’s preface this by saying I am incredibly single. Sure, it’s not like this was a choice I consciously sought out in my life - but things have a tendency to work out unexpectedly. It’s not like I haven’t tried, but...
xPennyLanex
Editor Age: 37 "You Changed.." Why Women Shouldn't Love You For No Reason
I feel like it's time to debunk another bad habit guys have...this time of getting comfortable once in a relationship that you lose all the qualities that attracted her to you in the first place and then calling her a...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 I'm a guy, and I want to have a sexual relationship with a girl. Does that make me evil?
First off, I want this so badly- it's something that I've never had before, and something which practically every guy half my age has and takes for granted. And even in spite of this, sex ISN'T the only thing I want in a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Common Mistakes I Think Women Make When Asking Out/Dating Men
It’s been a long time coming, but here it is: just like my earlier myTake, Common Mistakes I Think Men Make When Asking Out/Dating Women , I’ve finally done a female version as per requested. I’m not going to lie, I was...
Growing apart from a childhood friend
I had been best friends with this girl ever since we went to a private elementary school, and now we have grown apart slowly but it's obvious. When we were in elementary school, the economy tanked and I had to go to a...
Ginnyweasley97
Editor Age: 29 Why Arrogant A$$holes are Kinda Hot
I keep on seeing questions here asking " why girls like bad boys." Girls keep responding "nice guys win." Which is partially a lie. Call him a jerk, asshole, douche, player, jock, or whatever; he's the guy who stirs up...
sherbearee
Editor Age: 28 