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Search Results: compare myself to others
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My mom and I never get along. I mean, I'm the oddball--the outcast in my family, so I don't get along with any of them, typically; but, things get ugly on the daily basis with my mom and me. Sometimes, when her...
BlackTealLazer
Xper 5 Age: 23 Do I go for it?
I'm talking to this girl, and we can talk forever no problem and have a lot of similar interests. I like her personality and we are are on the same wavelength. To say the least I love her personality, but I'm not as...
user49912
Xper 4 Age: 27 Confessions of a Brown Skinned Girl: The Good, The Bad and Confused
"Light Skinned". "Brown Skinned". "Dark Skinned". "Caramel". "Light Brown". "Medium Brown". "Dark Brown". "Light Caramel", "Tanned". "Light Mocha". "Coffee Brown". "Pencil Brown". "Chocolate"... Everything that's listed...
MelaninQueen21
Xper 5 Age: 26 I find myself constantly comparing my looks to other females. How do I stop being so insecure?
I feel like I'm so unattractive, even though people tell me I'm "pretty".
Ragga23
Xper 2 Age: 24 Girls, Why do woman have a problem with my "ugliness" compared to other guys?
I'm an ugly dude but very low key & keep to myself I dress homely & avoid talking to everyone But for whatever reasons most females feel "hostile, bitter, scared, disgusted by my presence from first sight...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do females always compare themselves with their friends?
I dont remember the last time i have ever compared myself with any other dude in terms of attractiveness or whatever. And i know that most guys dont do this, at least none of my friends. I wouldn't friends with a jealous...
ChefPapiChulo
Guru Age: 34 What I Learned From My 9 Ex-Girlfriends (Part 1)
So, me being the inferior F-grade height I am, combined with being ugly, dark-skinned, having hypothyroidism (thus effortlessly overweight), as well as having had a Precious Puberty, which lead to at least two of these...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 How can I avoid comparing myself to others in life that are doing better?
I feel like such a horrible friend deep down. I totally said congrats and I also offered to help her move and I’m taking her out to eat. Someone please help me on how I can change my mindset as I’m not jealous just feel...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I stop hating myself?
I just hate and despise myself... i have no idea where this comes from but i hate myself my character the way i look my body my face my hair my lips my mouth i hate it all and i hate me. I starve myself and i punish...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is finding a good partner hard in your country?
I’m from Singapore and honestly most people there are not very good in English language but there are people who can speak better English than others, it’s because they studied many hours a day, reading lots of newspapers...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do you not get bitter over this happening to you?
I know shouldn't compare our lives but i'm pretty bitter about my ex cheating and leaving me for a guy that basically checked off all her wants. I wouldn't want her stay with me if she was unhappy, but as I near the 2...
Rocknerd2
Xper 5 Age: 37 I have a feeling I’m becoming a toxic girlfriend. Can someone please give me some advice?
So we’ve been dating for about 8-9 months now. My boyfriend is very sweet and we get along very well. I tend to overthink a lot, and it gets worse with time. Recently I have been really stressing over the thought of...
Anonymous
(18-24) My "friend" became so toxic what shall I do about this? Please help me?
So a year ago i met this girl at university we became so close and i was so kind and helpful not like showing off myself but i am friendly with everyone.. i trusted her and we became best friends or that what i thought...
Lollypop24
Xper 3 Age: 25 Mental Health Acuity: It Begins With The Physical (And virginity is not the problem, fellas, it's the symptom)
My dear fellow gaggers, over the recent months, actually close to nearly 2 years now since this whole pandemic thing began, I've found myself forced into some sort of profound journey where I tamed a rather fierce...
InventorofWarp
Xper 7 Age: 29 I'm 21 and still don't know how to drive. I feel really embarrassed about it. How can I get over my embarrassment?
I'm 21 with a driver's license, but I'm still learning to drive. I earned my driver's license at the age of 20 and I got a learner’s at 19. I feel embarrassed at the fact that I got it so late compared to others who get...
Von705
Xper 5 Age: 25 Im kind of jealous of my friend who is a doctor?
I love my friend and we are good friends. We're no super close, but we are close enough. I've never looked at her as a rivalry until I became attracted to a guy who is a doc. Not a physician but doc of med. I dont know...
Anonymous
(25-29) Living With Klinefelter Syndrome, Here's my story.
I was always very Very thin growing up, When i was 12 years old i was hospitalized for my weight, I was losing it rapidly, was also having issues eating, and placed on a feeding tube for nearly 2 years. Gaining weight has...
LaFerrari
Explorer Age: 29 I'm never good enough?
I was at my grandpas funeral a few years ago. My sister came back (the really beautiful sister I have) she was dressed up all dolled up in heels and everything, but so was I. My great aunt came in the door and she's...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was my relationship with my childhood best friend toxic?
My (former) best friend abruptly ended our decades long friendship after I invited her to my wedding. She never congratulated me. I had a feeling something was wrong but I didn’t want to assume so I waited for her...
Anonymous
(30-35) Honestly, do you really love yourself for who you are?
Because of me spending way too much time on social media I started comparing myself to others now after finding out they used photoshop I started to love myself way more. But it’s kinda sad more and more women are...
Anonymous
(30-35) 