Search Results: getting attached

Is it true guys who are not virgins are more likely to have sex outside of their relationships if their girlfriends only accept sex after marriage?

In Asia, those girls who don’t hookup, or don’t have sex in a relationship but are only willing to give their virginities after marriage. I’m afraid of giving my virginity because I don’t want to give it to a guy who may...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Getting over him?

I’ve crushed on one of my friends for a bit but then forced myself to get over because we aren’t a good match. I told him how I felt and he said I could do so much better than him. I know for a fact he can’t give me what...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he still interested or just nosy and wants to be in control?

So this guy and I talked for a while. He said he was too busy for a relationship, yet went into another one with some other girl. They didn't last long either. I had cut all contact and then one day I was like lemme get...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have a date possibly coming up soon. How do I handle her romantic past?

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I just cannot give my heart to a woman with a romantic past. I have a date coming up, and I am pretty sure this girl has already had a first love, if not more than one past...

Inthecraphole

Xper 5 Age: 31

Did you become emotionally attached to the person who took your virginity?

Unfortunately this applies to me I lost my virginity at age 26 and I've never had a relationship at all he was my very first boyfriend and my first relationship but even though things ended on bad terms and I was...

Cherrylicious

Yoda Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

Was this girl bothered that I was okay with being friends with her after our date?

I talked to this girl for about 1.5 months before meeting. She had tonsillitis when we first started talking then a short time later she picked up covid. Then I ended up getting sick so that's why it dragged on so long,...

red324

Guru Age: 37

How soon is too soon to introduce young children to new people your dating?

ok so the reason I ask this is my ex introduced our 5 yo that had ASD to his new "freind" and her daughter, in my opinion way to soon. Not just at the park.. at her house. They have been seeing each other for just under a...

JC1981

Xper 5 Age: 45

Fashion & Beauty

Should I get a boob job or is it a waste of money?

I'm really self conscious about my boobs and it's really been bugging me for awhile. The women in my family who've seen my boobs like my mum and stisters all make fun out of them and say they are weird, that I have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Anyone who suffered narcissistic abuse from parents, were you desperate to find love everywhere?

Narcissistic abuse is emotional neglect, constant criticism, gaslighting, isolating you, blaming you and controlling you when you were a child and a teen. You were made to believe that you're worthless, incomplete...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can a boyfriend love you, but leave you?

We were 6 months in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend, and 4 months more off and on after it, being unable to let each other go. The relationship grew toxic over time, in the sense that I demanded more time...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is low self esteem the reason for getting attached easily?

I was never really shown much affection as a child so I latch on to those who show me affection as an adult, and it hasn't turned out so well most times

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

When you gotta go...

When you gotta go. There are many kinds of injuries people can get. They range from a paper cut to a full-blown dismemberment. All kinds of treatments have been devised to repair or at least mitigate the effects from the...

exitseven

Master Age: 55

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My ex behaved indifferent and distant when we got back together, but when I started moving on became friendly?

Okay, help me clarify this. We had a lot of ups and downs with my ex boyfriend, and he left me. He constantly repeated he's not in the right mental state to have a healthy relationship, that he's depressed, he's...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Technology & Internet

Which social media site is the Worst of the Worst? Reddit or Twitter?

A response to this question I asked here. Both Twitter and Reddit have the absolute SHITTIEST communities on the entire internet. Both toxic userbases are pretty much identical in how childish they act and behave. But...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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Girl's Behavior

Is my friends with benefits getting too attached, too soon?

Been friends with benefits with a woman for a few months now, but we’ve only hooked up a couple times because we live a couple states away. We talk all the time through text, she is a really great friend to have and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Will we find our way back to each other?

I got to know this guy from when I was a few months away from being 18. I only saw us as friends ever because I just didn't like him like that but on my 18th birthday he wrote me the sweetest message and over the month...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Zodiac Bumble Capricorn Dating?

met a guy on bumble. i'm a girl. we first started talking last week of may, at first he wanted to get to know me more, but he was usually at work (i didn't know at that time). we usually talk at the end of the day when...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I go about this situation? How to be friends with the possibility of more? Not wanting anything serious?

I recently was being pursued and getting to know a guy that I really fell for. I knew him years ago and liked him. Everything about him seemed truly like everything I was looking for so far. He was honest, up front,...

Anonymous

(30-35)