Search Results: insecurities fear

Did I push him away for loving him so much when he didn't want commitment?

I am only just now realising that my ex probably had commitment issues. Abandonment issues, fear of losing his freedom, past relationship drama and a mulitude of signs showing me how terrified he was of commitment. I had...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

Are tears a sign of health or emotional sickness?

I cry when I read eulogies for dead people I cry when I hear about people doing good things for other people I cry when I see other people crying I cry whenever the guy I'm with ignores me But I think sorrow is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend says he became interested in me because nobody has ever told him they like him before?

I think he wants to date and fall in love and have sex and get married with and have children one day. The problem is he is extremely shy and quiet and girls are turned off by that and don't ask him out. He also gets...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do women say "You do not love me!" to their boyfriend/husband?

Women don't feel love the same way that men do so they are constantly having to test men to see if we love them or not so that they can be secure that the guy is giving her his commitment. When a woman says to a man you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What to do if I have psychological and insecurity issue?

I'm 19 years old guy, this period of time I'm unstable and insecure about everything, I think I have psychological issue? don't tell me to go to therapist because I don't trust them! I can't trust any of my friends even...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Was my boyfriend hiding that he thought of meeting another girl his friend offered to set him up with?

Me and my boyfriend have had tough times in our relationship. I have said some things to him out of fear that hurt him deeply. He broke up with me indirectly & wanted to be friends. He had told me that I broke his heart...

Portia-R

Xper 4 Age: 28

Family & Friends

Long Lost Friend Appears At My Doorstep! What do I do?

It's been 3 years since we last spoke. We were friends in high school, but everyone assumed we were official. We had an odd relationship. I was and still am inexperienced and he was and still is odd. He's the...

Beach84

Xper 6 Age: 31

What to do when you DO have access to his social media?

I trust my boyfriend! I really do, yet I can't overcome these "maybe he..." moments and think he's going to cheat on me and I start checking in his social media (that he gave me the password). I've been cheated on before,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What can I do if my boyfriend is not over his ex?

Okay so him and his girl have dated for approximately a year, I’ve dated him for over 8 months and we both hold some significant feelings for each other that continue to grow. I can see the feelings emerge from both of...

championfroggy

Xper 5 Age: 30

True or false: once you’ve shown a girl your insecurities, fears, weaknesses & indecisiveness she would have lost any interest she had in you?

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Perhaps women aren't just shy and submissive in dating, perhaps they too are cowards, just like a lot of men in society?

I'll stress that whilst this is mostly about women (being a man), the things I wanna talk about are universal... The dating game... I'm a big man, always working to improve myself physically, mentally, emotionally and all...

FreshOutaIdeas

Explorer Age: 31

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Girl's Behavior

Women Think They Should Approach Men? I Don't Believe That

For a lot of years I’ve always been against women making the first move on a guy, or at least I never really favored it. But now I don’t really care one way or another or make a big deal of it in my life anymore, though I...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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100's of people don't want us to be together?

Our relationship is getting serious, he wants to be with me but I'm feeling hesitant for the sake of my sanity/self because a lot of people and his friend group don't want us to be together because his ex is in his friend...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What kind of individual lies, cheats, and demeans their partner? I'm desperate for guidance and help please read and try not be judge too harshly?

I'm desperate for answers and guidance. My relationship with my ex ended a little more than a year ago, the final catalyst was me accusing him of cheating after things always seemed off. He professed repeatedly he was not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

How do you know it’s your gut feeling telling you somethings wrong or when it’s something else?

How do you know it’s your gut feeling or your instincts telling you something is wrong, or it’s just your insecurity or fear or anything else other than your gut feeling?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are most white men mentally ill & insecure?

I'm a native from Chile & I have lived in many states & in many different cities & many different neighborhoods in america & in every neighborhood I was in most of the white men would have a bone to pick with me & would...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

I hate being manipulated and this is the perfect way to respond to a familiar manipulator!!!

Please just leave me alone. You bring me down so much. You are so negative and it's constant. You always have an excuse to be negative, late or slow, whatever. Now you've injured your foot it's a big thing and you...

Lilyanony

Xper 7 Age: 34

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