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One of my best friend was in a relationship with this girl for five months. I think they loved each other. Anyway he is a narcissistic control freak & he ended up breaking up with her because she had apparent jealousy issues about him prioritizing his friends who were girls over her. Seemingly a toxic relationship since he cannot or never has admitted wrong doing in his relationship and indeed in our friendship in general. She took it quite bad & he started spreading stuff about her in college & thus she became depressed. She still went back and & had sex with him a couple of times but she has realised since this that this was not the way to go and both do not speak to each other now.

Anyway fast forward three months & on a night out I end up back in her house and stay the night. We both agree not to tell him. I feel guilty but do not regret doing it. I actually would like to pursue her but am not sure if it is right to do so. Both seem over each other and any time he brings her up he says he hates her and never wants to talk to her again, could all be covering unresolved emotion though.

Am I stupid for wanting to do it again? I honestly do not know how he would react. Given his nature if he found out he would utilise it against me I think. But then again this is all speculation.