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I am a needy, co-dependent person. So much so, that I took almost two years off from dating to show myself that being alone is okie dokie. It took A lot of time and healing, but im in a lot healthier place now. I found a guy who treats me well. He calls me almost everyday and we see each other 2-4 times a week depending.

In this relationship, I've always fought the urge to confront him for more attention knowing its my problem talking. There will be times when he won't call or text due to whatever reason and it makes me very uneasy. It's never longer than a day and usually because he's working or in remote areas without signal. He has military duty in the guard.

We w been dating for five months and have established a relationship. No L word had been tossed out. I will tell him I miss him but I never really tell him how I feel when I don't hear from him. I fear doing so will make me look needy. He has literally no idea how needy I am because I pretend not to be.

I struggle with this because sometimes I don't think he really knows how I feel and im concerned with being vulnerable or appearing to be a crybaby. I know he cares for me but sometimes I just miss him so much. help.