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"We don't have money". I first heard that when I was 9 years old. I couldn't have candy or pepsi cola or juice or something to eat at school.

This grew into a bigger problem over time. I had less clothes to wear by the age of 12. I walked with holes in shoes and one time the shoes were even openly exposing my feet and I walked like that to school in Germany. Got bullied and mobbed.

I brought this up several times to my parents and I felt either ignored, dismissed or attacked (they were toxic and abusive). I picked up on that pattern of outcome and that it's pointless to ask for new clothes, shoes and food for lunch. So I stopped asking and could do nothing but let life proceed and focus on fast forwarding my life until I could make my own money while feeling like I was set on fire from poverty. I was 15 years old when I stopped asking. I considered getting money and essentials is on me and no one else (duh!).

It also got me thinking on a secondary question. If i were to go on a date with a girl and she asks about my childhood and I say it like it is, would that send her running away from me?

So what I mean is hot guy who dresses well combs his hair but his attitude, although he is not a wanna be cool or mean person, he may have downsides because of his looks or an unattractive person who tends to be honest, loyal, shy, respectful but dresses a bit bad? Like someone who wears sweatpants a lot and lots of like faded shirts. However when necessary, wear proper clothing to certain situations. Their hair is not like comb its just a simple faded hair that don't put gel.

Thanks

This is something I have been thinking about lately. In literally every clothing store for men I can find pyjamas... but I have never heard about or seen any adult man ever use pyjamas... I stopped using pyjamas at 10 and all my male friends stopped about that time too... my dad and grandfathers don't use pyjamas either.

On the other end of the spectrum however I feel like every single woman I have dated, been friends with etc... (my mom, sister) uses some kind of pyjamas or nightdress.

So the question is what do you wear when you sleep? And why?