Search Results: asked if i should leave her alone

Is he playing me or doesn’t know what he wants?

There was this cute boy who kept looking at me but would never would initiate contact until I did one day. All was going well until I was curious as to why I was always initiating contact and never him. I politely asked...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

HELP!! Everything was going fine until he said he wasn't in the right headspace at the moment, is this the truth or a way of letting me down gently?

I met a guy a few weeks ago, and it was incredible. We hit it off straight away, he ticks all the boxes, we have so much in common. He was romantic and kind and the messages had a lot of effort to them. We were excited to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Should I leave this girl alone at the gym?

I caught this girl staring at me twice it was awkward. Then a few days later I introduced myself got her name etc. Today saw her and asked her out of the blue what her workout routine is like. I didn't say hi, mention her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

My boyfriend cheated on me with two girls. Should I ask why?

I recently found out my boyfriend cheated on me. He’s currently with one girl for 4 months and the other girl was only a month to my understanding during the third year of our relationship. I’ve been with my boyfriend for...

Ramona82

Xper 4 Age: 30

Dating

How should I move the conversation on?

Hey guys So I danced with this girl on Halloween party and she was really amazing and cute. We were hanging with eachother but she seemed high/drunk and when I asked her number she gave me the wrong a number. Fast forward...

done4ever

Xper 3 Age: 27

Break Up & Divorce

He wants me back but doesn’t want a relationship yet. What should I do?

Relationship has been off and on for almost 2 years. We broke up last December so we have been trying to “work it out” since then, taking week-long breaks sometimes. I got fed up with the relationship not being what I...

whitleyg

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

Should I call my boyfriend?

My boyfriend sleeps over at my apartment very often. I just bought him some pijamas to be more comfortable when staying here. We had a small argument this morning cause his car was taken from the municipality and he had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Should I tell my friend about this?

I hang with four girls up here at my college. We all went to high school together so we have known each other for a while. One of my friends went home last weekend. So there three if us there. The friend who left talks to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

When to try harder vs just giving up?

Well when it comes with women when they tell me no, or they'll let me know, I just leave them alone. I don't know the subtleties of their hidden message, and whether they want me to try harder. One other thing I have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Am I in the right, for feeling annoyed when my “best friend” hmu wanting me to buy her a new phone?

Over the last month, i have become my “friends” personal bank account, I've felt like even changing my facebook name to “Amys bank account” (i won't add her real name for privacy reasons), she owes me $50, i gave her the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Guy is acting distant but says he doesn’t need space? What do I do?

We talk everyday & Last week, we had an argument because he said he was stressed out with work. We didn’t call each other names or anything like that. It was just a stupid argument. Anyway, I end up leaving his house and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

I asked him if I should stop going after him and he said no but does he mean it?

So I like a shy guy who’s going through some personal stuff Yet we hooked up once, and afterwards we kissed a couple of times, even after I told him I’m not sure he wants me to leave him alone or not, to which he said no,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Should I check in with him?

My boyfriend told me the other day he needs to be alone for a bit. He’s going through a rough time in his life right now. However, since then he’s been sending me messages and I have been responding. They’ve been good...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Would he kiss me if he doesn’t like me? Do you think he does like me?

So my crush and I work at the same place, hooked up once and had some short kisses after this. after our shift the other day he told me he had stuff to do that day and that ‘it was no excuses’ when I asked him to leave...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

I have a crush we hooked up, kiss, but don't sleep together, does he not like me anymore?

We both work at the same club, me at the bar and him with the sound system he's the one who's not talking to anyone, super shy, always in his world (and high af) but he's too busy, working 4 days straight no sleep....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is it a Red Flag if you Have Not had a Relationship since High School? A Cautionary Tale of Believing Old Tropes.

Thanks to @Justneedtokno for inspiring the telling of this true story. You can visit her question here: Is it a Red Flag 🚩 if a woman has not been in a real relationship since high school or college? Here is the story...

Floppy2112

Xper 7 Age: 52

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Flirting

Is it friendship or more?

Hi, I am getting super suspicious of my guy friend's intentions as he is starting to change his behaviour. 1. He says he wants to get closer to me and get to know me better when I jokingly said it might not be a good...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Am I being manipulated?

I'm kind of a pushover and I let people take advantage of me. I don't know why I can't just block them or tell them to leave me alone. For example, awhile ago I met this guy in class. We start texting and he asks if...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

I hurt my boyfriend and I don’t think he knows what to decide please help?

he being first one to give me a healthy and non toxic relationship. However, he would busy with school but have time to do other things which is fine, I felt he was distant and all that worry and upset was building up and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Are you the parent instead of the child?

So my mom and I live together and we try to split the bills 50/50. I’m an adult so I have no issue with that plus living alone is more costly since the cost of housing has sky rocketed. My mom and I’s new rent amount is...

Anonymous

(25-29)