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I am Asian and I took my husband's (who is Irish/Italian/German) last name but I do not identify as Irish (yes it is one of the most common last names.

My daughter looks totally like me. She looks only Asian. But she identifies with being Caucasian. I kind of feel sad for her, I don't know what to think. She likes only dolls with blue eyes and blonde hair. She likes to dress up as Elsa. She wants to and prefers to only be friends with girls who look like blond hair and blue eyes. I bought her a doll with black hair, tan skins and she will not play with it much. Her aunt bought her a black hair, black eyed doll, she won't play with it. At the store I found two barbie dolls, one is brown hair brown eyes and the other blue eyes blonde hair and she chose the blue eyed one. Her aunt (my husband's sister) has blue eyes and blonde hair, her kids all have blonde hair and blue eyes. She doesn't look like them. Is it ok for her to identify as Caucasian?

My friends tell me it''s ok. They said that there are men who identify as "women" and guys to identify as "kids" (someone who is 40 and identifies as a 10 year old)... so why not? and women who identify as men...

I need advice please... I met a guy at a party in November last year, we spoke on the phone many times until we finally met up in the city on the 4th of January. I hadn’t been in a relationship for 8 years as I really struggled after being with my narcissistic ex... anyway this new guy was really flattering, he insisted on buying me drinks, food etc on every date we went on, then for Valentines Day he bought me an $800 ring and insisted I have it, I’d never been given a ring before so I was blown away! Only thing is he insisted that I must dye my hair black as he said he hates blond hair!! He also hates that I’m friends with an ex from 10 years ago and reckons I’m cheating with him, I am not!! So anyway he’s suddenly gone all hateful towards me in the last few days and accused me of being a shifty con artist for attaining the ring from him and that I must give it back! He said if I don’t that he and his mates will come to my home (I live with my elderly mother and 8 year old daughter) and get it back that way!! I’m terrified and anxious!! He honestly insisted that I have this ring and if we break up it will be something I can remember him with... am I an idiot for accepting his gift? He seems to be mentally ill and hid it well early on!! I also feel that he is most likely a casual ice user too due to his up and down emotions and paranoia!! I said I’d meet him in the city with a friend to give him back the ring but he said I must come alone or else!!! I’m not coping so any advice on what I should do will be appreciated...