Girls: Guys "Do Not Care" Overall About Girls' Hair Colors!

[Anon-ymous1]

This shouldn't take too long.

Also as usual, it needs to be said apparently that I'm speaking in terms of the overall overwhelming majority of guys here, as in the Bell Curve. Not literally each and every single male on the face of the Earth. Duh.

So, I see a hell of a lot of questions on GaG here

asking about whether guys find girls of a particular hair color or skin color or eye color attractive or more attractive than others. "Do guys find green eyes attractive?" "Do guys find blond hair attractive?" "Do guys find Asian girls attractive?" Girls... please...

...I'm going to make this really simple-- we don't fucking care. Like, at all. Overall we don't.

We care about this:

^ This girl is hot/pretty because she's hot/pretty. She has a very fit, slim, alluring physique with lovely legs, a taut tummy, and a nice chest. A pretty face and smile compliment it. You think guys think she's hot because she has brown hair? Uh... really? Seriously?

Now let's say a guy says "Oh man I really have a thing for Indian girls." Uhh... okay, well he means Indian girls who look like THIS:

He does not mean every Indian girl out there; it's not like he is going to find literally each of-age female in the entire world attractive.

Basically, guys may say things like "I only date brunettes" or "I really find Scandinavian girls attractive" or "I love brown-eyed girls" or whatever, *but those are completely secondary considerations to what guys overall find attractive first and foremost, which is face and figure.* Period.

...If a girl who is blond is blond and hears from a guy she likes that he really has a thing for redheads, well, uhm.... that really doesn't matter.

If you're charming enough and nice enough and have a nice smile and you keep yourself in good physical shape with a slim weight, it is *MORE than possible* (it's almost likely) that you will get his attention and turn his head. Your hair and eye color is completely secondary. This is really, really simple.

That's all; you can stop asking those questions now.

~Thanks for reading. Hugs and kisses.

[JSmuve]

I agree that it definitely is secondary.

I'd say these are how the things I look for are ranked by importance (not including personality)

Primary:
- body shape
- breast size/fullness
- ass shape/size
- complexion
- face

Secondary:
- hair color
- hair length
- skin color
- height

I don't even notice eye colour. Like who the fuck cares about eye color?

[Anon-ymous1]

This is the point.

[BehindTheMist]

Really? I notice/remember eye colors more than hair colors!

[Halucinator]

Now this is some true shit

[Halucinator]

Thanks for MHO😊

[Warmapplecrumble]

I agree with this post.

[dangerDoge]

I’m a bit confused by your claim. In the title and some of the sentences, you seem to be saying that hair / eye color doesn’t matter at all. However, at the end, you state that it’s secondary (implying that it means something but it isn’t a big deal).

I agree with your “secondary” claim but disagree with a “it doesn’t matter” claim. Personally speaking, I wouldn’t go so far as to say I don’t care at all as the title or some of the claims in the myTake suggest. However, like you say, I don’t treat hair or eye color as a dealbreaker. I. e. if I was trying to rate some women in terms of physical attractiveness— if they had similar faces/figures, hair color would act as a tie breaker. Likewise, (at least for me) unnatural hair colors would likely be a turn off and could make someone look unnattractive. I. e. bright pink, or a bad dark red color, or whatnot. I would definitely say they mean something, regardless of how attractive the face/figure.

More so, if you are asserting a stronger claim that only face/figure matter, I would disagree more. Hair length matters more than color for many guys (based on responses to questions I’ve seen). Some guys find pretty short hair as a turn off by itself, and many others consider it a turn off if the person isn’t more-or-less attractive enough to make it work.

Now, I’m not implying such things are the things guys look for when determining attractiveness, but I don’t think I’d go so far as to say they don’t matter period.

[Anon-ymous1]

Matters that are entirely secondary "don't matter" compared to matters that are *primary* considerations. I was forceful with my wording on purpose. Sure, they matter some-- just not nearly as much as face and figure. That's the point.

[dangerDoge]

Well, if you put it relative to something, I agree. I was referring more so that the title and some of the wording at the beginning denoted a stronger claim.

[Anon-ymous1]

Primary considerations matter most. Non-primary ones don't matter nearly as much. That's clear from the piece.

[dangerDoge]

— the title saying “do not care”
— “ we don't fucking care. Like, at all. Overall we don't”

Yes- you reword things when you get to bold, but I felt it was a vague from the other part. That was just my experience as a reader. Regardless whether I’m part of the minority or majority who interpreted/read things like that, that’s simply how I felt.

[Anon-ymous1]

Okay.

[Wolframium]

Yes! Awesome. Now, this is finally some editor, who knows his shit.
I share this frustration. Hey, do you feel like doing more of these? Short, straight to the point, with mandatory "not all, but majority" etc. explicitly stated myTakes about FAQ? No, not the FAQ about this site, but literally frequently asked question here. The same stuff over and over again.
Penis size, for example, is another one of those.
I just cannot stress enough, how good this is. It should be pinned somewhere, with other FAQs. Seriously.

[Anon-ymous1]

Thanks dude.

[Anonymous]

Everyone is different. I have a thing for brown haired guys with blue eyes, but that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t date a guy because he doesn’t have brown hair or blue eyes. lol. It’s clear that if a guy say that he have a thing for blondes (like 90% of the guys) that doesn’t mean that he wouldn’t date an attractive brunette woman if he has the chance to

[Anon-ymous1]

Right.

[Blkone2u]

These days one should be careful what they class hot and sexy about a woman not all but some because unless you know them in accordance to their attitude and characterists u may miss it all because though the outside of a cup looks clean yet when happen to have the ability to see inside the cup the difference is often contrary to what one originally expected. So with much thought it gives one the reason to think its not always how it looks from the outside until the inner contents is revealed.. and let this once again this is not a stereo type of women because a great number of flow flawlessly without any introduction from anybody.

[Anon-ymous1]

Um... Huh?

[Goodwifie]

I think he means that it's what's on the inside that matters the most.

[Blkone2u]

Yes goodwifie your right on point

[Anonymous]

That was great! Thanks.
It was good to know coming from a guy.
My SO has a thing for blond girls. I am a brunette, and it has always been a source of insecurity for me. I ask him about it, and why he didn't get a blond girl in the first place instead of me. But he was never able to give me a coherent answer like the one you just explained.

[Anon-ymous1]

It's entirely secondary, is why.

[mistixs]

He probably chose you instead of a blonde girl because he was emotionally more connected to you than to any blonde girl

[scorchedwater]

this is the truest thing on GAG. i had a thing for black guys who play football or basketball and then i somehow found myself in a relationship with a blond haired, blue eyed white guy who was captain of a soccer team lmao

[Kaytiee]

Lmao that seems like such a cute story though, like out of a movie or smthn xD

[BCA6010]

I would say that this is generally true, but here's my caveat to it:

It needs to *look* natural, even if it isn't actually natural. When done by a professional, even crazy blue/dark red/purple can look as if it was natural, even though we all know that's impossible.

Bleached blonde looks trashy and terrible. That's probably the only color on its own that I do not like.

Ultimately, hair style/length matters a lot more than color.

[Anon-ymous1]

@MiaLinia Stop spamming. I'm deleting your comments for spamming.

[BeMuse]

Everyone has features they find more attractive. It could be hair color or length, eye color, height, boob size, face shape, ass size, skin color, tattoos, etc. Different guys have different preferences so there’s not going to be a clear consensus among men on what is best for everyone of us, because nothing is best for everyone of us. Sure you can change shit up and you will end up losing some and winning some others in the same stroke. It all matters though… There are plenty of supposedly “hot girls” that I don’t find attractive that you probably do. I’ve also seen girls that look alright with dark hair, and then they dyed their hair blond to try and get attention and all the sudden they looked unattractive to me. You just have to get in where you fit it, you can’t make everyone happy.

[Rainie_]

All I know is people are friendlier and so much nicer to me when I’m blonde... Noticed a stark difference each time I’ve changed my hair actually.

[Anon-ymous1]

Interesting.

[mrArcher]

Guys do not generally care about a lot of stuff. They care if you are pretty (which isn't as hard as it sounds, pretty is also a question of demeanor)
and kind. If you can act nice and sweet, you're pretty much assured to find a decent guy. Provided you have something in common with him.

[DianaWest]

you forgot to add the other little detail: perfect statuesque body.

[mrArcher]

@DianaWest
Nah.

[DianaWest]

really? You don't care about a girl's body? Btw: girls from Romania are usually very thin and beautiful.

[mrArcher]

@DianaWest
True, not all of them but true, Romanian girls are beautiful :)
We do care, but not as much as you'd think.

[DollySummers]

I would have to say majority of guys are what you said. But wow Guys are way less picky than us girls. Sorry that you got feminists overreacting down their.

[AlienParasite]

I wouldn't say majority of guys are like that, because I would say majority of humans are like that. Me at 15 would say "oh I love blond guys". I've only dated dark haired guys. We usually discriminate more through shapes (of both body an face) and don't really care that much about colors. However there will always be exceptions and some guys and girls could be exagerately restrictive about what hair/eye/skin color should a person have in order to date.

[Anon-ymous1]

Yeah but look at the absurd plethora of questions that girls ask all the time every day about hair color and hair length and eye color, both on this site and elsewhere, and you'll see why this Take is necessary.

[AlienParasite]

I see how this post is necessary, is quite tiring to see the same questions over and over again

[Anon-ymous1]

Indeed.

[Kaytiee]

I agree, also when it comes to relationships I feel as If these things fly out the window. When I was younger I said I Only liked dark brown haired men, yet dated two blondes and couldnt care less.

[DianaWest]

same, i prefer dark-haired guys, but i found quite a large percentage of golden boys hot too.

[Anonymous]

Appreciate the positivity here but there are some guys who will reject a girl just based on hair or skin color. Some guys like girls who only have blue eyes and some guys only like Asian girls.
So if you have two girls of equal attractiveness (that are both a 9 based on facial features) a guy might reject one of those two because she doesn't have blue eyes..
Extremely shallow but it's a bit true

[Anon-ymous1]

"Some guys"

Right. Not most.

[Anon-ymous1]

And again, yes, I already agreed with you in the Take, if you actually read it-- I didn't say it doesn't matter *AT ALL*. I said that it is entirely a secondary consideration. As in, indeed, if you have two identical girls that are both actually attractive, then the guy will choose the one with his hair preference, true. But how often does that happen? Basically never.

[MisterAnon69]

Gonna have to disagree with you there. long silky black hair, dark strong eyes, and under 5'7" come first, you have to qualify to reach qualifying. The second round is normal stuff the finally personality. Not everyone has low as hell standards.

And hey, mine worked cuz I found and caught the girl of my dreams.

[malegender]

Great and perfect take, let me add to it, jewelry and clothes mean nothing at all to us other than in regards to how much skin they reveal. That shit is for other women only. It is a pain in my ass to try to remember to have to say something complimentary about my wifes new fancy outfit to avoid getting "in trouble". I really could give a shit less, rather I care lots that she is working out and not overeating but god forbid I speak my mind on this. Women are crazy

[godfatherfan]

That is not entirely true. I cannot stand Red hair on a woman. Ideally, I love blonde hair and blue/green/grey eyes. I however have dated 2 women with Red hair and just put up with it. But I will definitely try my best to stay away from women with Red hair. However, in the end, pussy is pussy and sometimes you just can't help yourself.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

As long as they are clean and in order, the color doesn't matter.

[Guanfei]

We have preferences, but ultimately we'll never reject a girl for her hair color.

[Anon-ymous1]

Correct.

[RolandCuthbert]

I do care. I just like the natural color.

I saw my girlfriend's natural hair when we first met. Then she changed it.

I was like. . . what?

[Anon-ymous1]

Okay, but... did you read it?

[RolandCuthbert]

Sure did. But I think my statement is pretty plain. Did it confuse you?

[Anon-ymous1]

Uh no. It's simply that your girlfriend's hair wouldn't matter to you if the rest of her wasn't attractive. If she didn't have a pleasing face and figure first. That's the point. It's a completely secondary consideration.

Which would be a bigger deal to you-- her changing her hair like she did, or if she gained thirty pounds?

[RolandCuthbert]

But it does matter. I think most guys would say, it matters when women try to change themselves. My girlfriend thought I would like her as a blonde. I didn't. I liked her as her. The women I met when we first laid eyes on each other.

I didn't need her to change her hair. And it mattered a lot to me when she made it platinum blonde. I hated it.

So it matters. It is just that when we are first physically attracted to a woman, it isn't what drove the attraction.

[Anon-ymous1]

... What? The point is that whatever it was else that attracted you about your now-wife, if the rest of her was not something you found attractive, "oh but it's okay because I like her hair color," like... no. That's not a thing. It is a secondary consideration. Which is what I said.

[RolandCuthbert]

I think we are agreeing dude.

I am saying it becomes a primary consideration when she changes it.