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I think there is a discrepancy on what women understand that is insulting to men vs. how men take it.

Although I haven't called a woman a slut in years, admittedly in my high school and college years I have JOKINGLY said it. Nowadays I won't say it unless I'm REALLY pissed.

Met a girl, we talked. She had a boyfriend. I waited, they broke up. The next year we got together. Things were good, my career progressing, our life together growing. My recovery from drugs is going well, then I decide I no longer want to drink because its holding me back. I had a long history of partying, she did not, she wanted to experience my old life. I wanted to help, I tried to guide her through her experience at a distance... It became too much for me to handle because she was acting suspiciously. I discovered a fake facebook page of hers.(hers not a copycat) discovered that she had tried meth at a rave, uncovered the fact she slept in a hotel with a guy and her best friend (best friend was a tweeker and a widely known slut) I went fishing in California, commercial crab. My season didn't pay out and she wanted me to come home, so did my sister so I could help care for my father. (79 y/o w/dementia) so I called my lady and told her I couldn't come home because I didn't have enough money for a place to live. She told me to come home anyways. I got home and started looking for work. Took me almost a month to find a job.(I'm a framer by trade but I'd torn my meniscus so was unable to.) Found work at a call center for boa. The day I start I get kicked out by her roommate, man in his 30s... We keep dating a while. And then she says shell be unable to keep our dog at her place so she starts looking for a foster family "temporarily". She comes and gets the dog from me, to "meet" the foster family. I called her and asked her to bring him home and she'd sold our fucking dog!!! Permanantly. I broke up with her then and there. Quit my job and lived homeless in my truck for several months in a deep state of depression ( not revolving around the breakup, my entire life fell apart during this time.)

He's 26 M. When he was at around 19 years old, some girl broke his heart extremely harsh. Ever since then he's just banging sluts (He's the best player I've ever seen, he's Asian, 0 money, 6', good-looking).
But he excessively gambles. His MBTI is ENTP or ENFP, he's not a dumb bastard. He's like @Aguysopinion4799 and @LegateLanius mixed into one and all he thinks about is his dick (that part is like me). I ask him what he thinks of women. His response.

he said "Women are all sluts and they cheat on you, I see girls cheat and lie so many times. you know how many times I'm fucking a girl while she's on the phone with her man? I see this all the time. How the fuck do we trust them? At least I have the respect and I told them I want to fuck other girls before I fuck them. And that ain't gonna change, I'm honest to them"

His game is so natural, he can pick up bitches with one line, fucking good looking cunt, but we're so similar in other parts of our lives. Feels like my twin sometimes, personality wise. He has no money, he is the worst gambling addict I've ever seen.

He currently has to steal from the supermarket to eat. That's how poor he is. I invite him over all the time for dinner but he always asks where the bitches at lol. But honestly, he just doesn't want us to see him like this.
He's currently looking for a Suga mama on tinder/coffee meets bagel, that's how much he disrespects women.

He actually asks around for help but people give him bad advice. He debates (ENTP LOL) advisers and therapist that's why rehab can't help him. Someone did an intervention on him, he outdebates everyone (me and him were seriously cracking up and felt really bad), I wasn't at the intervention. He told me after.

Is there anything more I can do for my friend? I talk to him, he is not a retard. He is really intelligent but bitches and gambling ruined him, made him gave up on life.

How do I help my friend who's the greatest player I've ever met sort his life out?