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My boyfriend and I hung out with his friends at the pool for most of the day. The evening I had dinner plans with girl friends and potentially grabbing some drinks after. Because we ended up having to care for one of my boyfriends friends I ended up running a little late to my girls night. Since I was having a girls night my boyfriend had to have a boys night. He passively aggressively texted me the whole night saying have fun with your friends I guess I’ll just see you later... anyways once he got home he said hey I’m going to go to bed the door is open. No worries, I let him know we were on our last drink and just chatting and then I would be heading home. He kept making comments about staying with someone else which I ignored because I know he was drunkenly saying it. Right as I get in my friends car I let him know I am heading his way and he text me no just stay with your friend because I’m locking you out. He has my apartment key so I can’t even go to my place if he does end up locking me out. I get to his and sure enough I’m locked out and he isn’t answering his phone and my dog is barking on the other side. Finally after 45 minutes he answers and says fuck off. We are supposed to be moving in together in a month and he is meeting my family this week. The places I went to tonight were both restaurants, not bars, clubs etc. I stayed in contact with him the whole time. I feel very uneasy with his reaction and not sure how to handle it.

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. He took me to dinner last night, and I finally asked him what drew him to me in particular. We met on Hinge. He said that there's three types of women: The easy ones, the difficult ones, and what he calls the 'worth it' ones. He said the easy ones have no standards or, if they do, they don't ever enforce them, which makes it easy to get in and get out. Then he said there's the ones that have a stick up their ass and think they're too good for anyone. He said I was one that would be considered 'worth it'. So my profile had a question on it that asked which was better: PS4 or Xbox One (Hint: It's PS4). He thought it was funny that I "gave" the answer but he said it was a unique question that women wouldn't ask. Then he said he saw I went to college, I was a teacher, I had pictures of my dog, and of my cakes that I decorated so he said I was down to Earth, too. He also liked that I was well spoken and close to my family. I had standards, too, but they weren't impossible to meet and none of them were based on money and stuff.

He said most guys think this way when looking for a woman. If a guy doesn't want a relationship, he wants an easy girl. If he wants to divide and conquer, they usually pursue the stuck up snobby one (consciously or subconsciously). But when they're ready for something good, they really want someone that's 'worth it'. Not easy to get, but also not impossible, and can be pretty reasonable contingent on personal interests, personality, and wants.