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I’ve known him a while and we do flirt together a lot. He owns a cafe and he’s 12 years older than me. Sometimes the flirting gets sexual and sometimes he has become “jealous” when he’s seen me with other guys or become moody if he thinks I ignored him.

So today I went to buy coffee and I was wearing gym clothes. He put his hand out to shake mine but I could see there was rubbish in his hand. He told me his number was written on it (joke)

He asked me if I’d put it in my bra (sometimes I keep money there) and he started messing around by grabbing my purse and pulling my top forward. He then tried to put my purse down my top.

He cuddled me and made me kiss him on the cheek. He was asking me if I had a nice day and if I’m still happy at my job. He kept looking into my eyes and down to my lips.

Then he belched after having a drink and we were laughing about it. When I left, he gave me another hug and kissed me again.

So I’ve known this guy a while, we’re basically friends. We’re both popular streamers on an app..
So we were at a party and had both been chatting each other up a bunch.. every couple of minutes we’d kinda find ourselves next to each other and chat for a second then we’d move away again..
He’s the social, but shy type at the same time. And I’ve been trying to figure out if he’s just being friendly or if there’s some flirting in there.
I’ve developed a crush on him over the months that I’ve known him.
So at some point, during the party.. I guess he got rather drunk and sprawled himself on a couch with his eyes wide open in front of the tv... I noticed this and immediately got extremely concerned.. I rushed over to him and gently grabbed his shoulder and asked him if he was ok... he kinda blinks slowly and gives me a huge smile and says “yeah, I’m fine.. thanks for worrying”.. and he kinda just grabbed my hand off of his shoulder gently.. and he took it between both of his hands while sitting up a little bit.. and he kinda affectionately rubbed my hand slightly before taking my hand up to his lips and kissing the back of my hand... all while keeping eye contact with me... I probably blushed extremely hard and just said “no problem! I’m glad you’re ok!”
In retrospect I’m kinda kicking myself for not kissing his cheek or something?
All I know is that I felt an immense warmth in that moment and it was really intense... I have to also consider that he was super drunk and possible not thinking...
what do you think?
Does it seem like I’m thinking too much or does it seem like there’s some sort of chemistry between us?

Here are some signs I saw during a lunch with a guy I know a little, but not a friend yet :
looking at my lips then her eyes then again my lips, dropping his glass on the table, being nervous to sit so close, leaning a little forward, touching my leg for few minutes but not moving his leg away...
Are these signs for real attraction or not?