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Comparison to radical feminists and terrorists.

Both are based on hateful ideologies that identify their targets as an enemy to be destroyed.
Both paint themselves as victims of oppression who are simply resisting against the oppressor.
Both seek to advance the power of their own group at the expense of all others.
Both seek public attention through their attacks and other outlandish displays.
Both are made up of members who are angry, bitter, delusional, and unhappy with their lives.
Both need a scapegoat to blame all their personal problems and failures on.
Both engage in terror tactics both as a retaliation and as means of advancing their political agendas.
Both want their victims to cower in fear and paranoia.
Both seek reaction from their targets as a way of stoking the flames of war between the two groups.

So I know a girl and i've been getting good vibes from her eye contact, smiles, flriting, etc. she's mentioned around me that she's single, and I've called her a queen and she winked back at me.

Next time I see her I plan on asking her too come with me for a second, and take her somewhere private. I'm gonna say something along the lines of;

"I can't quite figure out if you are just a super smiley girl who's nice to everyone or if there is something more potentially between us... (while smiling/looking in her eyes, I'm gonna grab her hand and pull it between us and say) your a beautiful woman who has the world in your palm (caressing her hand) and you can get any guy you want, are you willing to take a chance with me?"

I'm assuming there will be a door behind us so I may add, or do you just want to walk out that door behind you?

I don't know ladies and guys, wooing or am I setting myself up for failure? (I fear not the rejection, the wondering of 'what if' has had me far more concerned.)