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I hate to say it but as man I usually have my mind made up within 30 seconds of meeting a woman of how physically attracted I am to her.

Emotional attraction does still weigh heavily into it though. She can be hot af but if I can’t stand her personality and/or she’s has no genuine interest in me I can move on. I can also move on a lot faster nowadays vs. when I was younger.

But the issue is often come across women I find that are 5’s or 6’s. They aren’t repugnant or anything but I don’t feel any butterfly’s in my stomach either. More often than not they really like me because while I am nice to them I also don’t bend over backwards for them either. I’m just as happy to be there or not be there. Either way is fine. So it’s easy to be myself.

But as a man I find that the ugly truth is I have never found myself growing in attraction for average looking women despite some of them having excellent personalities. I really have tried to “check myself” on this. Tell myself to look deeper. Tell myself to “grow up”. Feel guilty af about it.

But if tried to force myself to date and commit to average looking yet great personality girls in the past. It always ends in disaster. I quickly lose interest in sex and find myself having less patience about their problems. And I know that’s not fair at all.

Is it possible for a man to slowly fall in love with a woman he isn’t attracted to?

I am asking this because I have an opportunity to get married to an average looking girl who is outstanding in all other ways. She’s a very hard worker, respectful, excellent personality, moderate conservative, has no vices, etc. She’s also younger (27) yet mature and independent.

Yet she has a rather unattractive face and I feel Iike complete shit saying that. She’s was born with that those facial features and has zero control over them. I keep kicking myself not to judge that but it’s hard.

I absolutely love this level of fashion on women. To me, for clarification, there is nothing revealing nor suggestive. At the same time it looks sexy and very classy... This being said since Im a guy asking this as many features in this level of fashion seem suggestive... Is this really in fact Classy or Slutty?

Examples:

Hot guy: 6'2 210 lbs. Masculine face and deep voice. He is very traditionally masculine and seductive. He never shows his emotions and is very serious in his daily life. But can be flirtatious and playful when out on a date. He is into sports, cars, boating and having sex. He keeps a rotation of women around to expand his options. But he is financially wealthy, and can provide you with a secure and exciting life. Has a broad social network. If he chooses to commit to you , he will make a loving and committed father and husband.

Cute guy: (the boy nextdoor type)

5'8 185 lbs. Cute, soft facial features. Brown eyes and long dark brown hair. Goofy and playful, kind and open with his emotions. he's not rich but takes pride in doing good work. Passionate and attentive lover. Animal lover. He loves cooking and baking for other people. He also enjoys an active lifestyle of horseback riding, hiking, biking and swimming. He loves coffee shops and video games.

So there is a 2014 movie called 13 going on 30 in which a 13 year old girl wished to be older and it ended up coming true. Jennifer Garner was the star of the movie and the child actor who was her character's 13 year old self was Christa Allen. Naturally, studios would pick a child actor who had similar features to Jennifer when casting them for the role.

Fast forward many years later and Ben Affleck is now divorced from his wife and is back on the market. If you were Ben Affleck would you have just started dating a younger version of your ex-wife instead of marrying JLO?