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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 and a half years now
But 1 month ago we broke up because he got fed up with my trust issues and accusing him of cheating/flirting with other women
he's never cheated on me but my ex boyfriend did so i still have trust issues
But 2 weeks later, he called me and wanted to get back together again and I apologized to him
So we got back together

Anyway so I know his passwords to everything
His phone, tablet, laptop, email, etc
I went on his phone messages last night (I know its bad but I wanted to know if he was seeing other girls during breakup)
I didn't find anything (as in he didn't add any girls or went to see another girl)
But I did find something
- he messaged his best friend and he sent a photo of this girl and he said to him "im talking to this hot chick, gonna be my new girlfriend, easy bro😂"

I got pissed
And confronted my boyfriend
And he said "yeah I went on dating app to get my mind off you, was talking to girls on it, added them on instagram. I talked to her but she got weird and started asking me dumb questions so I blocked her. You can check my instagram block list. I dont care. And plus I saw you on it too so I got more pissed and talked to more girls. But i didn't go see them"
And he showed me his block list and he did block that girl
And i said "if u want her or other girls, why come back to me?"
Then he replied "isnt it obvious? I still have feelings for you and I felt weird talking to those other girls anyway"

Hi, I’m in love with a guy for almost 2 years but never told him. He first wanted to date me but I rejected him. Then we had a friends with benefits thing and we ended up in fights. We argued a lot for a year and then we made up. It’s been a year he was single and we were more and more intimate.
I was closed to admit to him my feelings but he told me a week ago he wanted to try to date his female best friend. I was devastated and I still am. I’m truly in love with him and care for him.

I understood he probably always thought I only wanted a sexual relation with him, but it sounds like I have a special place in his life but i don’t know which it is : he’s intimate with me, he’s very attracted to me and he trusts me.

His relationship starts bad :
- he couldn’t follow me on instagram or like other girl pictures, because « she’s super jealous » (what he said) and he’s afraid of her making drama and send him screenshots of every tiny thing he does on social medias, because she knows all his past with his exes and flirts so she’s suspicious
- he asked me to not save every text we send to each other because he’s afraid of her spying on his phone
- he explained he has ever talked about me before so maybe i might represent a threat for her

Knowing him so well, and that he never had a serious and mature long-term relationship, liking freedom and doesn’t like being bothered and let a girl get to him.. how he can accept such a thing?

My questions are : do you think their relationship might work? Do you think he never saw I was in love with him? Should I tell him about my feelings (knowing that I’m going to be rejected because he has this new girlfriend) or should I wait more longer that their relation end?

Thanks so much for you help

Hi, I’m in love with a guy for almost 2 years but never told him. He first wanted to date me but I rejected him. Then we had a friends with benefits thing and we ended up in fights. We argued a lot for a year and then we made up. It’s been a year he was single and we were more and more intimate.
I was closed to admit to him my feelings but he told me a week ago he wanted to try to date his female best friend. I was devastated and I still am. I’m truly in love with him and care for him.

I understood he probably always thought I only wanted a sexual relation with him, but it sounds like I have a special place in his life but i don’t know which it is : he’s intimate with me, he’s very attracted to me and he trusts me.

His relationship starts bad :
- he couldn’t follow me on instagram or like other girl pictures, because « she’s super jealous » (what he said) and he’s afraid of her making drama and send him screenshots of every tiny thing he does on social medias, because she knows all his past with his exes and flirts so she’s suspicious
- he asked me to not save every text we send to each other because he’s afraid of her spying on his phone
- he explained he has ever talked about me before so maybe i might represent a threat for her

Knowing him so well, and that he never had a serious and mature long-term relationship, liking freedom and doesn’t like being bothered and let a girl get to him.. how he can accept such a thing?

My questions are : do you think their relationship might work? Do you think he never saw I was in love with him? Should I tell him about my feelings (knowing that I’m going to be rejected because he has this new girlfriend) or should I wait more longer that their relation end?

Thanks so much for you help