Search Results: flirting or being creepy

Traditionally, I believe the "He's Just Not That Into You" theory. If a guy likes you, he'll make time to be with you. The question then becomes HOW MUCH TIME will that be? Should we be expected to swap daily constant texts etc. (which is a little over the top for me) or is the connection at the end of the week enough during the flirting/dating phase?

I don't like the borderline stalker who is always texting "where are you?" or the creepy fellow who doesn't know you at all but texts you "good morning"/"good night" with smoochy emoji daily... It's too much, especially with a new person you don't know well.

But what if a guy is busy all the time? I don't mean the "I can't talk, I'm busy" type, but the guy who has been single long enough that he doesn't actually cull out time to be on his own, relaxing, inactive with the potential to fill the gap with social activities or a relationship.

Which brings me to the fellow my friend is trying to set me up with. He's a nice guy and the 4S's -- smart, sweet, sexy, single -- which is great, but he's not ever really available. Even the time he makes to chat with ends with him getting caught up in business or between clients etc. A couple of times since we've met he's taken the time to meet with me, but always ends up being called to business by other people.

Is it worth the effort to be patient and see if he makes more of an effort?

I meant to include a poll with the other question (https://www.girlsaskguys.com/guys-behavior/q1642366-guys-have-you-ever-actually-been-accused-of-sexual-assault-or)

With my recent Take about respecting space and not groping, touching or kissing random strangers, there was some misunderstanding among mostly males here regarding what I meant, and it seems that many guys on this site are convinced that they're always just one wrong word away from being accused of assault or harassment, just for simple misunderstandings.

Now, I personally think it's a great lot of hyperbole. I don't think it's that hard to navigate interactions without "accidentally" harassing or assaulting someone, or making them feel harassed or assaulted. I don't think it's that complicated figuring out how to flirt with someone and, eventually, try to kiss them, without making them feel violated. But a lot of the guys here seem to be under the impression that you "can't even talk to a woman these days" without "being called a creepy pervert or a rapist". So many guys commented on that Take about how it's not OK for women to make a big deal out of unwanted touching, groping or kissing because it's hard for men to know what is OK and what isn't, or when it's OK to touch and woman and when it's not.

So, I'm curious and I really hope that I get HONEST answers here. Have you ever actually been accused - and I mean either served with or threatened with charges - of sexual harrassment or sexual assault, when you honest-to-goodness didn't mean any offense and truly thought that what you were doing was OK?

If you answer yes, please describe the incident in the comments.

What I'm not looking for here is incidents where your advances were rejected or a woman merely called you a creeper or something because she wasn't interested.