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Last year around this time I started dating someone. Before we made it official I told him that I wasn't sure that I wanted to be in a relationship and he said the same thing, but then a few weeks later ended up asking me out. Now, why I said yes when I wasn't sure I wanted to be in a relationship I can't tell you because I don't know myself. Anyway, I ended up breaking things off with im inbetween Christmas and new year's.
I asked him to give me some time because it wasn't that I didn't like him, I just wasn't sure I wanted to be in a relationship. I told him that at that time all I could offer him was friendship, and he told me that he couldn't accept that and still tried to hit me up all the time and what not so I ended up blocking him on social media and my phone. He facebook messaged me and told me that he was sorry and if that's all I could offer he would accept that for the moment. Long story short, he couldn't follow through on that and I ended up not talking to him.
Over the summer he texted me and asked me to hang out but he was talking about more of a "hook up" and I wasn't down for that so I told him no. A few days later, I text him asking if he wanted to hang out and he said sure and we set up a time and place, but I bailed on him. I felt terrible about it but I didn't think it was a good idea. I wanted to be his friend before I became his girlfriend because I think that those make the strongest relationships. So I didn't talk to him for a while after this.
However, last week I text him apologizing for bailing last time and asking him if he wanted to hangout and I would definitely show this time and he said okay. I got to his house last Wednesday and we hung out for an hour playing rockband. I went back again Thursday and we watched Game of Thrones for a couple hours and then we ended up having sex, and cuddling and acting really coupley. Later that day after I left I told him that I didn't come over to have sex, and he said that he