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So I met this guy at a party and he gave me booze and then convinced me to go to the store with him to get more booze (he wasn't drinking and he was 18 ). I went but we never went to the store we went to his house and we fucked. Long story short we started dating.

He would never take no as an answer and would always find a way to make you feel bad so that you would give in. I broke up with him because I was over at his house and we were cuddling and he started pulling down my pants and i stopped him and said please dont i dont want to have sex today and he kept trying and i kept stopping them he pinned my arms down and pulled them off and started having sex with me at this point i was so pissed and didn't want to get anymore bruises cuz my mom was noticing so i just gave in and let it happen. Then I broke up with him. Was I overreacting or was this an abbusive relationship?

We had some problems because of some mistakes I did like being jealous over not real reasons, arriving late and making him wait at least 5 times, having a kinda bossy/princess like behaviour, etc. He talked about me about these things the week before last and we decided to give a try to the relationship. I tried my best to not do any of these, the only one I couldnt really help was arriving a bit late, but during last Friday he was cold and distant during the whole night (we were at his coworker's party). Then when we got to his bed , besides not wanting sex he laid far away from me and I couldnt help telling him "You dont love me anymore. I can feel it, Im not stupid" and he said "Im sorry" and hugged me but I was so mad/sad that I run away in my pjs, left his apartment and run downstairs to hide in a corner and cry. When he finally found me it was horrible, he told me more things like he could see I got more attached than he was and that it didn't work out for him. I got so angry he still invited me to his party I insulted him and cried the whole time. After a while we returned to the apartment and I decided to tell him the main reason I arrive late and take more time to do things: my dad abused me as a child and I've been taking antidepressants since Im 11. He then cried with me and told me how sorry he was, he even offered me to ask a coworker for me to live with her but I denied it. I had to stay with him, I had nowhere to go. I woke up 2 hours later and started crying cause it felt horrible to have him hugging me and have slept besides him hugging me after that nightmare so I got up and went to the bathroom and when I came out he was standing there silent.

My (now ex) boyfriend and I dated for 18 months. It was a very serious relationship, we both loved each other dearly and wanted to one day marry but we are both quite insecure people. This ultimately led to the breakdown of the relationship 3/4 weeks ago. However, two weeks into the break-up, we decided we needed to sit down when I'm done with university exams and talk everything through so that we can potentially give things another go. When we spoke it was so lovely, we told each other how much we loved one another, how much we cared and that until we meet up and talk, we will stay committed.

He went to a work party last week, the night before my final exam, and said he'd be home at 11/11:30pm so that I wouldn't worry. We had been talking previously and it was all so positive, we were happy. I met up with him yesterday and he told me that he went home with a co-worker after the work party. They had sex but only for 30 seconds, he stopped it and went to sleep and at 5am he woke up to wish me luck on my exam while in the same bed as her. He also told me he went on two dates with girls from dating apps, one of the dates being two days after he had sex with his co-worker. He said nothing happened. I stuck to my word. I'm so in love with him that I couldn't even look at other guys. Does he not truly love me?

I told him my mum found out because I came home in tears and couldn't not say anything. Now he's blaming me that he had sex with that girl because the relationship made him so insecure and he won't be able to face my family. I said that I will forgive him and so will my mum, in time, if he fights for me and proves to me that he made a huge mistake but he'll do anything to be with me and make me smile. He replied saying he's tired of having to prove himself. He says I'm his dream woman so surely I'm worth the effort? Why is he backing out? It's so hard to let go because I love him more than anything. Am I an idiot for fighting for him and trying to make it work?