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My boyfriend and I have been dating for about nine months now and he doesn't want to hangout or talk to my son barely at all... now I have a child by a different man before we ever got together and he has a son of his own. Well I've been asking him lets spend time with my son and he keeps telling me excuses "I'm not in the mood" or "I'm to busy" now he barely gets to see his own son so he told me today while we were arguing "how can I be a father to your son when I can barely see mine?" And it hurt a lot when he said that cuz I feel its unfair for my child to be neglected. Well then he tells me I need to stop pushing this on him, but in my opinion I just want my son to have a father in his life and to think that being together for 9 months now its important for him to be around also he still hasn't told me he loves me but I tell him every once in a while, plus he never wants to take pictures together even though everyone we know knows we are together, of course I'm gonna choose my son over him any day but is he rite? Am I wrong for wanting him to spend time with my son and do more couple things? He also tells me he wants us to be together and he cares very deeply and buys me flowers every once in a while but he keeps saying he doesn't feel for me the way I do for him what does that mean guys? Anyways can anyone help me cuz I don't know if I should give up and move on or stay and keep trying?