Is my boyfriend lying about liking my boobs?

[princessLuna77]

-He told me when we first started dating he prefers big boobs (im a 32B)
-He and his friends refer to a specific chick they know who is.. well off.. in the boob department as 'christmas'
-I had to ask him to touch my boobs during sex.
-He couldnt remember me ever wearing low cut tops and said he doesn't really pay attention outside sex

he's a good guy, and i belive he genuinely does love me a lot. He also has excuses for every one of these things such as A) he doesn't know why he said that B) he only calls her that because his friends dont remember her actual name C) its awakward to touch them in most positions (although even when we spoon i have to move his hand onto them -.-) D) he does have poor memory and said they are too small to notice in clothing

we argue a lot about my boobs and it always ends in him saying 'i dont care about the size its the shape' and then he'll tell me to shut up or something. I want a boob job, and to go up to a D. he usually just says 'i like your boobs' or 'do what you want' i just never know what he really thinks.

[stevie123]

Don't fixate on boob size.
You are a B already, and that is about average.
You are already bigger than your mum, so there is hope for more.
I wouldn't get a boob job to try to keep this one guy, or any guy for that matter.
There are plenty of guys that LOVE A and B boobies, I am one of them.
For example, what if you got bigger boobs, then a really terrific guy came along that liked smaller boobs? Would you get a reduction or pass on the guy?
Bigger is not always better, and I know two girls that had D boobs and got them reduced for pain issues. Not to mention the $$ and pain part of surgery.

[BertMacklinFBI]

wow d00d like seriously, you're letting your boobs get in the way of your relationship after he even said he doesn't care? trust me when he says he doesn't care then he doesn't care. yeah I like girls that can kick ass and are a little crazy but that doesn't mean I won't be completely content with the opposite.

[Lizitachan]

Girl I'm a B34 so I totally know what you're saying. But don't you worry, as long as you look in the mirror without shirt and you can tell ''those are boobs'' Than ur fine.

[Tthorpe16]

I agree with that guy. Just because he does or doesn't like your boobs doesn't mean anything. He didn't get with you for your boobs.

[princessLuna77]

i just want to make him happy, and id rather him straight up tell me that he doesn't like my boobs. He tells me things all the time and goes back on them like how my 'features arnt prefered' but now he tells me im pretty. I'd rather he be honest than not.

[Tthorpe16]

Just talk to him. Be blunt.

[princessLuna77]

i have and he tells me to shut up...

[Tthorpe16]

Just let it be. If he likes them then he does, if he doesn't then he doesn't. Boobs don't matter.

[princessLuna77]

I want him to be happy, if he isn't happy with my boobs i want him to tell me, so i can try and put on weight or wear padded bras more, make him proud to be with me.

[LittleSally]

I guess...

He likes bigger breasts.
Why would you want to get surgery just to please someone else?
That's nuts.

[princessLuna77]

i wanted one way before meeting him.

[LittleSally]

But you're too young for it.
You have to wait for your body to stop growing.

[princessLuna77]

im pretty sure this is as good as its going to get

[Yc2K15]

don't get a boob job, at least not yet. Let your body grow a little longer before you consider it because you never know, you might change, you might not even be with him next year. Don't change your body for anyone ever, only change for you.

[princessLuna77]

I've wanted one since i hit puberty, its not only for him. Yea it would benefit him, but I just want to make him happy.

[Yc2K15]

well then do it, but still maybe waita little. A womans body goes through a lot of changes from 18-30, I also suggest not going too big. Fake boobs feel really crap sometimes but I guess its up to you!

[princessLuna77]

My mum is 52 and she is a 32A has been since she was 12, so i dont have much hope.

[Yc2K15]

My sister thought the same until when she changed a contraception she exploded. But yeah I hope you know what I mean. All the best in your part to comfort ☺️

[Anonymous]

Some guys just tell you what you wanna hear so you wouldn't fret frequently about it.
Some of us just like them for show, but the real part he's after is probably some other part about you.

In Brazil the least important part of the body is the boobs.

[KDA20]

I feel you are overthinking this too much - Think about the whole relationship and decide whether you are happy or not instead of focusing on one thing.

[Juspham]

I can speak for most guys here... we dont care about boob size as you much as you girls think we do

[creepycreeper]

Small boobs > Fake Big boobs and he's right it is more about shape than size.

[tony72722]

Pics aren't loading OP.

@consultantisback
@polocrew

[Polocrew]

Pics or neg train

[tony72722]

I've restarted my browser. I've reinstalled my cache. Updated Java. Pics aren't loading OP. You got 5 minutes.

[ConsultantIsBack]

I reinstalled windows still no pictures are loading, aw fuk now i have to call customer service dammit

[Anonymous]

I am sure they are beautiful. Why not post a picture in a blouse. I am sure they look fine.

[Anonymous]

your insecurities slowly destroy your relationship

[princessLuna77]

I know, i just dont know how to stop worrying about it, i realise its stupid but its always in the back of my mind. I dont know how to stop being so sensitive about it.

[Opinion Owner]

by learning humility, and gratitude.

[princessLuna77]

If he finds them gross I'd rather he tell me, sure i would feel disapointed but I'd get over it. Its the going back on his word and never knowing what he thinks. Small boobs aren't to everyones taste im well aware of that from my ex. I know he doesn't think im the most attractive girl he knows, he's implied that many times. I just want honesty.

[Opinion Owner]

you dont get with a girl becaue she is the best looking but cause she is fun, you liked her character etc. and you somewhat fancy her appearece. there are always better boobs, better legs etc. you shouldn't let your mind get trapped in this vicious circle... .

[Trev1418]

That's good