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My sister and I were raised so much differently despite having the same parents. My dad was easy on her, and let things go all the time. She would cry and all of a sudden both of my parents were by her side saying everything will work out. I got nothing but tough love. My dad was a fucking hard ass on me. My point is that my story isn't that uncommon. If parents teach girls that they can do little to no wrong, and that they are princesses, and mommy and daddy save them in every situation... then they are going to be delusional when it comes to relationships or when they get in the real world and realize that nobody else really gives a shit about them.

My ex was the only child and was raised to believe this and as a result, she had so many issues taking fault in situations or taking responsibility. She just expecting me to be there even when she wasn't being there for me. It got to a state of delusional thinking. She would mess up and do something hurtful, and she expected me to make her feel better and wanted lol. This is simply because she was raised like this and coddled her whole life.

I again, don't think my story is too uncommon. Girls generally are treated with more sensitivity and coddling behavior than boys. I know if I ever have a little girl, I'm not raising her to believe that she's just a princess.