Have you ever messed up with someone who truly meant the world to you? Here’s my story

[Anonymous]

I’ve never felt the way I have with anyone I’ve met. With you, it was different. I thought about you a lot, smiled and caught myself realizing I was thinking about you. Just your name alone would make me blush and extremely nervous. You gave me this feeling I can’t explain. From the moment I seen you.. I knew something about you was special. And what do you know.. I was right. You’re the most caring person I know with the biggest heart. You’re intelligent, sweet, honest, kind. The list could on. But.. I messed up. I told you I was done. And I think that has to be the worst mistake I’ve ever made.

Now, I’m just laying here... 2am.. wondering why the heck I did that. Wondering why I’m feeling the way I’m feeling. wondering if maybe you’re feeling it too. Wondering why I let my friends words get the best of me. I never knew I could possibly feel this regretful. I never knew I had all of these feelings until I lost you. I never knew I could possibly miss you the way I do. Everything about you is so addictive..from the way you smile, to the way you laugh, to the way your eyes widen when you’re passionate about something. I’m craving your touch, your Hugs, I’m craving you. I miss you. And now... I just wish I could tell you how much you mean to me.

If I could, I would take this all back. I wish I could just text or call you to let you know I am sorry and that You’re all I need and want. But I’m sure you would find that ridiculous considering the fact that I was the one who said I was done.. not you. We may have just started getting to know each other last month, but we both felt this weird spark the second we seen each other.. almost like we were meant to meet that day. And we both still can’t explain why or what it meant. No one has ever given me this feeling you have. It’s unexplainable. You have this effect on me that drives me crazy. If you ever read this, I wish I could take it back. You are all I want.. and I’m sorry JT.

[SuzyB]

This is sweet and caring but be careful with those "sparks" those crazy feelings that turn you into something your not... I've been there and I've done that before and honestly, the worthy ones are the ones that make you feel bolder, stronger and bring out the best of you, the ones that challenge you! Don't wait for the butterflies, wait for the one that makes you feel like a warrior in battle, wait for the one that brings out the best in you! Trust me!

[MannMitAntworten]

True going both ways.

[EclipseoftheHeart]

Are you joking? If you mean as much to him as he did to you, by all means make an attempt, with apologies of course. What can you lose but a little humbleness and pride? To anyone else that will or going through this what will it hurt to try and get back together? Don't think they won't take you back. It is better to take a rejection than to go on in your life and always wonder "What if?" and regret that you didn't make the attempt.

[myTake Owner]

Should I send this to him? Maybe if I did, he’d be weirded out. Doesn’t seem like the type of guy for second chances

[myTake Owner]

I did :) and we had we had our first kiss😊 thank you for your advice!

[Andrew0478]

Great, now text that to him if you want him back

[myTake Owner]

i wish i could. I was the one who told him i wanted to break things off. Its been 3 days now, i'm sure he'd probably think i'm crazy. But, i do miss him like crazy. He's been all that i have been thinking about

[Andrew0478]

You can. tell him how you feel, similar to that text, and tell him what your reason for breaking up was, and what you want him to do differently. Either he wants you back and will understand you... or not.. But in either case, you have nothing to lose. Three days isn't a lot, so he probably doesn't have someone else yet..

[myTake Owner]

I did and we worked things out. Thanks for the advice 😊

[Anonymous]

Got goosebumps from this. This is my life.

[myTake Owner]

Any advice? I feel like if I sent this to him, he’d probably be weirded out

[EclipseoftheHeart]

Do it or always regret that you didn't

[Opinion Owner]

Depends on his personality. Three things could happen. Either 1) you feel awful when it doesn’t work out after reaching out and you feel like you officially breakup or 2) you move on by saying nothing and forget about that person or put them on the back of your mind or 3) you reach out and he agrees to be with you.

It’s hard to say if any of these are better than the others. Realistically you have been apart for some time. People change.

I think it’s likely that it won’t work out. When I try this the girl is usually offended. She’s happy to talk to me but has zero interest in being with me at all. It’s fair.

I ghost girls. I have issues with intimacy.

[Anonymous]

Yup I ruined the whole perfect relationship by making it okay to have an open relationship on his end only for sex. (He was sexually frustrated while I had frequent pain) He ended up getting rejected by a goth girl and thinks about her daily and now he's into girls like that. I fucked up this whole relationship like that.

[myTake Owner]

wow, i'm so sorry about this

[MannMitAntworten]

Nope. Never have. I also never had my friends influence my thoughts of someone I was involving myself with.

As for your story, allow him to move on. If you do decide to rope him back in and he's open to it... and you do this again, you may permanently break break away a piece of him he'll never get back.

[Anonymous]

I know that feeling. But it was a childhood friend. Years later, I am reaching out to them now.

[myTake Owner]

How’s that going for you?

[Opinion Owner]

I found them on Facebook, he’s changed a lot. In a relationship with a new baby. I sent a message congratulating him with his new life and family. And saying thank you for being a good friend.

[Ana929]

No the only time i messed up was when I didn't finish with him sooner

[Browneye57]

"But.. I messed up. I told you I was done."
Tell us WHY you did this. Perhaps it can be cathartic.

[Anonymous]

why did you end it in the beginning?
congratulations for getting him back

[anametouse]

Quick everyone find JT and tag him in this

[Secretgardenblood]

Good take.

[Anonymous]

Damn