Is your heart broken? Tell me your story!

[LostSouledGirl]

Hello, beautiful people. Yesterday, I posted something (How to deal with with your boyfriend who diappeared) and it went very amazingly. People were unbelievably supportive and that was really endearing to me.

Now, we've all had enough of heartbreaks. They hurt, waste a lot of good energy and puts you in a black solitude. Heartbreaks differ, sometimes, it's a loss of a loved one, your favorite pet passed away, your childhood friend left, your husband/wife changed... We all have our stories.

Let me share something that happened today. After I had that guy disappear on me, another guy jumped into my life, he's been trying to get to me for a long time, but I didn't pay attention, until we started talking and getting to know each other. He gave me a call today, we laughed and we talked about random things. After we hung up, I went upstairs to listen to music, staring at my ceiling, remembering all the things that happened this year... It got a little dark, the music playing like the end of a sad movie... I remembered him, the promises and the love he pretended to give. Everything he said, every moment we had passed before my eyes. I couldn't help but crying. I cried like a baby in need of his mother, banging my head against the wall; (not literally!) wondering why would he do that? There are a lot of questions running through my head, what did I do? How did it get here? I'll never know, because I sadly let it get so personal. It's okay, though, it's always healthy to let those tears out rather than keeping them in. I'm proud of myself. I'm proud of the person I was and the one I'll become. Today, I can finally say that I no longer wait for him to say anything. The message has been delivered, quite clearly.

Dear friends, cry if you need to. Let it off your chest. Let all that negative energy come out. Don't worry, you're not weak, you are very strong, and you can get yourself out of this... That's what I tell myself, and I'm sure that I will get out of this, one way or another... I will no longer grieve.

Share your story, let it off your chest... I will read and I will certainly support you as much as I can. Be happy. :)

[Anonymous]

I fell in love with a friend of mine. We weren't necessarily close, but we were always in the same groups in classes and lunch and so we were around each other a lot and things just fell into place. Problem was, with my depression, self-loathing, and lack of confidence, I could never tell her, (and she was in love with her best friend...). At best, I could just have conversations where I'd make her laugh, but it took all my effort to seem normal, but nothing made me happier than seeing her smile. I somehow mustered the courage to ask her to prom in a real sweet way and though I could barely talk to her most of the time do to nervousness, we went with a group so she still had fun. I would text her every couple of days and while I'm sure the conversations weren't enthralling, she at least put up with them, may even had enjoyed them. There was then a misunderstanding caused by my then friend which cut contact between us for a few months. We eventually talked about it and mended things up, but things have never been the same. We go to the same community college so I'll see her once and a while, but I normally avoid her due to nervousness. When I do talk to her, I can make her laugh still, but I can tell it's not the same. We'll be going to different colleges soon, and I wish I could become better friends before that, but I doubt I can. Nothing makes me happier than seeing her smile, but I might not get to see it again. It's not like she hates me, she thinks I'm cool and all, but I'm apparently not cool enough to warrant more effort. I miss her terribly, and I'll miss her even more in the months to come. It's been over a year and a half since that first break of contact, over two since I fell for her. I just wish I could have another shot to not screw it up. I'm still really torn up over it. But, she's happy without me, and I don't want to intrude on that.

[LostSouledGirl]

You should be happy, too. With or without her! Here's a quote; "“If you feel lost, disappointed, hesitant, or weak, return to yourself, to who you are, here and now and when you get there, you will discover yourself, like a lotus flower in full bloom, even in a muddy pond, beautiful and strong.” That basically sums up your case! think of the new college as a new beginning, break through your nervousness and get to know people! Be happy and live your life! I'm sure she's already living hers now! Best of luck!

[lily42091]

this is a very thoughtful thing to do.
I'm going through a breakup right now. My ex doesn't seem to care at all, we broke up because we just didn't work out. We tried but we always ended up fighting and we weren't meant to be. He also got new friends which completely changed him from the happy successful guy i used to know, to some druggie that dropped out of school, doesn't have a job, isn't going to college, and parties all the time. His style and personality has changed, and it's the worst feeling to think of the person you used to care about is now a completely different person, and you can't get them back. It hurts so bad because he has friends and he goes out, which keeps his mind off of me. But im so lonely, and i dont have friends or go out, so he is on my mind 24/7. his friends support him, and it's probaly so easy for him to get over me. I feel like he has already moved on, he doesn't care, and i miss him so much, i have no idea what is happening in his life, he just rejected and left me and i feel left behind and forgotten. I feel like he is living his life and having fun and not caring at all about me. I just wish that i could get over him already, and i constantly check up on his Facebook and twitter, and i'm always scared, because he sometimes posts something that breaks my heart. Like: "i saw a really cute girl today." It's so confusing. He doesn't respect me at all when we were in a relationship, just used me for sex, and he is a loser.

[LostSouledGirl]

I'm really sorry you're going through that. But believe me, sweetie, getting stuck and locking yourself isn't a good thing to do! You deserve a lot better than just sitting around mourning for some dude who is like you said doesn't have the decency to respect your feelings. Find new things to do, go out and have fun, make new friends! There's really no point in just grieving over an asshole! As for Facebook and Twitter, please block him, seeing what he posts will only make things worse and will hurt your feelings, so be a good girl and block him. If you need a friend to talk to, I am here. Message me whenever. :)

[lily42091]

Thank you so much :) I hope you're doing well <3

[NicknameShirt]

This is such a nice thing of you to do.
A little over a year ago, I started talking to the girl who had sat besides me for years on school. We knew each other well, but we started talking outside of school.
In school, we both displayed so confident and humorous facades in school. This girl was very very intelligent. You could ask her about anything and she always knew, she got the top grades in anything and had tons of friends.
Well, as we started talking, we both discovered in each other that we in fact were pretty depressed and insecure about ourselves, maybe not so surprising, looking back. We talked for hours every day, about life, love and everything you could think of. We became best friends. It was summer, we visited one another, walked in the sun. It was literary a dream, the entire summer. A paradise.

But she had to move away, to study in city, many hours from here. And I, suffer from some medical issues that needs to be resolved, before I will more to the same city later on (we happen to have the same passion for architecture).
Our lives became the total opposite of each other.
Her, in a big city, with lots of new people, a lot of work and assignments all the time. Me, on the country side, with almost no social life, no job or school.
I started to fear that she would choose other over me, since I stopped considering myself an interesting person, as my life seems so empty. I told her about how I felt, but she has kindly rejected me.
I have met her 2 times after she moved. And it didn't feel the same as last summer. We have talked less, and she doesn't seem very interested in my life.. Now and than we can have a fantastic convo again, but she rarely has time.

I'm basically waiting for the day I see her again, which will be within the next month hopefully. I don't know what I feel for her anymore. Obviously I am very attached to her, and I'm attracted to her as well. It's a mess, but it will be okay. I just feel like she left me behind, I can't follow.

[LostSouledGirl]

Thank you for reading and sharing your story. The way you've written this is so beautiful, very heartfelt and endearing. I am very sorry for your disappointment, but it's your insecurity that leads you to think low of yourself. I am very sure you're a nice person who has a lot of potential. Follow your dreams, get out of that city, apply to school, you can do it! She followed her dreams and she is living her life, so should you! Getting attached to someone who doesn't seem to share the same thing is a waste of good time, please get out of your shell and get started, believe me, it'll get you out of this depression. Follow your passions and the things that make you happy. Good luck, dear friend. :)

[NicknameShirt]

Thank you very much, and I'm working on it. It's a wait, but I will get there.
You write very beautifully yourself. Your story moved me, I'm glad you are progressing in the process of grieving and letting go. It's very important. I can tell you are a reflected and honest person.
It's hard to talk about this sometimes, amongst guys. So I'm glad you put this up.
Actually, I talked to her yesterday, after a long break. She was really upset about something with a friend, and cried a lot. I don't know. I gave her some kind words and advice and she listened to me a bit. There was a lot of care and passion, but I don't know how long it will last. I know she values me a lot, but still. Yeah. But thank you very much again, and good luck to you too!

[LostSouledGirl]

You're welcome! I did nothing. :)

Well, you can always keep in touch and be a good friend to her, but don't get stuck on a false hope. I'm sure you deserve a lot better. Open up your mind and heart so you can meet new people who will appreciate you as a person!

[XStarlightx]

I really don't think this counts but anywho…
Its more like my dad is cause the heart break
So my guy friend his name is Charlie. He is very sweet, caring, protective and well like a gentlemen for a punk rock guy. We have been friends for 1 1/4 the on valentines day he gave me a necklace and a note that said "will you be mine?" Then the next day I saw him I said "yes" and smiled. He hugged me so tight and I hugged him back. He never had his first kiss… I didn't ether… we went on a field trip together and I ended up kissing his cheek because he kept wanting me to take his money and he looked kinda sad so I did kiss his cheek and smiled. He looked suprised and smiled. As I looked out the window he kissed my cheek back and he smiled. We went out for 2 months then we started to talk about bad things in our relationship… we broke up mutually. He still wanted to be friends so we are. 2 guys have asked me out already and I rejected them. 3 girls have asked him out and he rejected them. Everytime I see him he smiles. Then… my dad found out… he said that I was out of control, that I was stupid, that I could of fucked up my life, that he doesn't care for me anymore, that he doesn't need me in my life, that he doesn't love me. I already knew he doesn't love like his daughter anymore… my dad hurt me… he has caused me pain over 3 years… but I stuck to it because of my sister and friends… he said after school ends he going to send me to guatemala and make me stay there. That made me cry… and I kept thinking about it everyday every moment… I told my friends they cried I told Charlie… he asked me if it was a joke… I said no. I couldn't look him in the eye anymore because all I could see was pain and hurt… he wants to talk to my dad… I don't know if I should let him… my dad is violent… stric and mean when he doesn't get his way… every time my dad sees me sad he decides to go to some place like fast food, restaurant etc… I say okay because if I don't he will yell at me… my dad, sister and I have a good time… Until he brings it up that I had a boyfriend and stuff… when he brings it up he saids it in a hateful tone and I just feel crying in the corner and curling up into a ball… when I get send over there I don't care anymore what he saids he can't hurt me anymore. He said he going to send me to adoption or orphanage. At this point I don't care. All I know is that I want to stay here with my sister friends and Charlie…my dad is going to get me hating him if he sends me.…

[Hannah591]

Mine is tore apart. I found my soulmate, a guy who fitted me like a puzzle and he felt the same way about me, we were going to spend our lives together. I thought he was so handsome; I counted my blessings everyday. He was simple, more ambitious than anything. But then he emotionally cheated with a girl. I tried to get past it but I viewed him differently after that.
He got a new phone, got loads of social media accounts which he never was interested in. He hung around with new people and decided he wanted to be single and sleep with other girls because he'd only slept with me. I kind of understood but we still tried and we went on a break, I tried throughout that time to think of ways to improve us, I was so excited to share everything with him and starting a fresh but he left me about two days in. The break up was hard, he made it really difficult, rubbing things in my face, being very cruel. He had completely changed. All his values and strong beliefs that I admired, didn't stand anymore and he became a rude asshole. He completely changed before my eyes and it was such a huge shock.
He refuses to talk to me now. He told me he wasn't ready for a relationship and commitment, yet he's gotten with his ex girlfriend who he said he found the most attractive (besides me). Months before he left me, he was constantly saying how excited he was to move out with me, we even put a time on it, but he left saying he wasn't ready?
Everything he told me appears to have been a lie and I feel so betrayed. I find it hard to trust anyone, not just in loyalty but in what they tell me. He said he loved and cared about me, but treated me like shit. Told me he wanted to move out and spend his life with me, then told me he wasn't ready for commitment despite being more excited than me! Everything he said just doesn't add up any more and it's left me with a broken heart and a huge emotional scar that will affect me forever. Guys don't realise the damage they can do.

[Bards]

:(( Damn.

[LostSouledGirl]

Girl, you're young and so pretty, you don't have to waste your time waiting for a childish asshole who doesn't know what he wants in life. It's kinda similar to my situation, he was so excited, 1000 times more than me about our future, but he ended up leaving without giving me a reason. Next time when you're with someone, try not to be that easy going (forgiving their stupid shit, like cheating and treating you like crap) because seriously, if you as a girl did the same to him, he wouldn't hesitate leaving you. So, take it as a learning experience, you still have a long time to find someone better.

[kaminalove]

I read your other take and it was really good :)
Well for me, I fell for one of my co-workers. He did too, so we started hanging out once a week after his shift (I live five min away so I didn't mind coming) After a while, I we kinda knew that we were into each other but realized that we both were nervous about commitment. The thing is I realized it waaaaaaaay later, while he immediately knew. We cut off contact for a month while avoiding each other.

When I saw him about two months later, I started to have feelings of resentment for him. Because he just acted like nothing happened. So I was pretty upset about it and cut off contact. In January, I regained contact with him but I wasn't ready. Lets just say that I did that impulsively. And it obviously backfired! I was really closed off around him while he was glad that we were ''talking'' again. He cut off contact by the end of the month.

In the end of Feb, he messaged me to see how things were going. And he suggested that we go work out together. Of course I accepted! I saw him many times in March and it was great. The only thing is that I kept my guard up as the month went on.

In April, I didn't see him much... But in May, I invited him to come have a drink with me and my friends and he immediately came. We stuck together the whole night and at the end I texted him that I was glad he came. Ever since that day, he just completely vanished and I don't have any news from him.
The only thing I can conclude in this is that I sent him a LOT of mixed signals due to my fear and I'm pretty sure that I've lost him by now...

[LostSouledGirl]

First of all, thank you for reading my posts! :)

Second, sometimes fear can hold us back. You get all scared and worried when things get all serious, you fear that you'd get attached then something wrong happens and they're gone! It was a jerk move to vanish, even if you sent mixed signals. If he was an actual man, he'd probably talk about it, rather than just hiding. Best of luck in your future, sweetie. Cheer up, beautiful, you have a whole life ahead of you, one jerk cannot ruin it!

[kaminalove]

Thank you so much 😘

[Evan_aa]

long story short I liked a guy who had a mean girlfriend, I wanted him so bad I let my wants get the best of me, I lost my integrity and morals and befriended him lying to myself that my feelings wouldn't grow, my feelings grew, he lead me on for 5 months flirting texting etc (nothing physical) all of a sudden he completely cut me out of his life, his girlfriend told him to never speak to me again and so he listened etc and now I feel this..
I feel horrible that I intentionally tried to wreck someone's relationship because I would never want anyone to so that to me, I feel horrible that I can't have him, I feel horrible that I still want him, I feel horrible that we aren't even friends anymore and I feel horrible because everything that happened is all my fault, I placed myself in the situation. And now?
Now I can't sleep, I try to eat but I do t have an appetite and I can't taste food at all now, food just feels like matter in my mouth and there is an unsettling feeling in my stomach all the time, when I speak my voice shakes, my heart skips, I'm cold on the inside but hot to touch, and I feel like everything in me has just been drained. It feels like someone threw a Tv and hit me in the head and im just waking up from a coma and everything seems like a faded memory. Like I just want to lay down like a dog and surrender to life... What are these feelings that I'm feeling? I don't know what to call this, can it really be heart break if I wasn't in love? It was less than love more than a crush.

[LostSouledGirl]

Oh, wow... Makes me sad knowing you're going through that! Honey, you're a beautiful girl, you deserve a man who sees you and only you! Don't ever go for guys like that, not to mention flirting with you while he was with someone, that's a really nasty game. I'd definitely pull myself out. Now you know it's not a wise thing to go for someone who's not available, learn from that and KNOW that you deserve nothing but the best. Good luck. <3

[MalloryAinsworth]

I had been talking to this guy for like six months (we were pretty much'considered a couple) and everyone who knew we had something going would agree that we were perfect for each other. He had really led me to believe that he liked me a lot but a week ago I found out through one of my friends that he has a girlfrIend. When we were in class and his friend asked about 'that girl from church' and if they were dating or not, he got quiet and gave his friend a look. What hurts me the most is that he obviously tried to have both me and the church girl and tried really hard to hide it. I almost wish he would have confronted me about it instead of trying to hide it because I feel as if that hurt me more. Also in that same class period later on some of his other friends started complimenting him on having so many girls liking him and crap like that and he said that he deserved all of them and started saying arrogant crap that shredded what was left of my heart because he turned out to be a completely different guy than I thought he was. I've gotten to the point where I'm wishing I wouldn't have taken the classes I did just because I wouldn't have met him. At first I was broken hearted but after going through and analyzing everything that was said and done, my heart was just filled with hatred towards him. I hate him so much I can bare to look at him. And yet whenever he passes by me and he ignores me, no glances at me, my heart aches a bit.

[Cameronn]

I once had my heart broken not long ago Actually.. It was last Sunday and Monday. Kind of a sad story.. I had a crush on this girl for a while now so first thing I do is talk to her and she looked at me with such a beautiful smile... 3months later we were really great friends and sometimes it was obvious she liked me.. I said "Hey! What's up!" She replied with a piercing arrow of "Hey buddy".. The buddy part got me really emotional and I stared to freak out.. I joined this site and found out she don't like me in that way.. Moments later she says to me she has no interest in me at all.. I cried for hours because she meant so much to me.. I was heartbroken. At school I was so sad and emotional.. I explained everything to my BFF (Female) and I couldn't speak. I was mumbling like crazy and there were tears everywhere.. I kept looking outside and there was my crush and again the tears came out.. On the buss I covered my face with my hat and I started again.. The whole buss didn't say anything cause of me.. Everytime I see her brights up my day.. But I guess it was a bad day for me on Monday.

[LostSouledGirl]

Believe me, dear. You're still young and you have a whole life ahead of you, she's not the last girl! I know it's very disappointing and hurtful knowing that she has no interest, but don't cry over that, and learn how to take rejections easier. I hope you find happiness and get outta this messy depression. It'll pass, believe me, and you'll laugh about it later. <3

[Cameronn]

Thank you so much for your kind words it means a lot to me! Thank you so much again! :')

[john2]

My story didn't mess with me anymore but here it is.

When I was 15 I met a girl online. Started talking to her and practically learned everything about her. She even told me I knew her better than anyone, even the guys she were dating. After seven years we ended up being close friends and eventually dated, but it was a long distance relationship unfortunately. When I finally went to visit her I wasn't thinking straight about anything and ended up spending all my savings on the hotelroom I slept in while I was there visiting her. I met her parents and everything, then a week after that she came down to meet my parents. I made a plan to go move down there closer to her that would've only took two months. We discussed kids and marriage after a while too. A cpl of times during the relationship we had a few arguments and she would always want me to forgive her and since I really loved her I forgive her quickly. But one day I started a argument and it wasn't bad, but the next day after it she closed down on me. Not telling me about her days anymore, not having conversations with me. Then a week later something happened to her babies father and she said she'll text me back after she visited to see if he was okay and never spoke to me again. Didn't have any closure at all. Was a tough thing to get over since I loved her and was close to her for so long, but I really learned a lot from them experience.

[LostSouledGirl]

I'm glad you're over it now. I'm sorry it went off like that. Some people have a hard time being honest, now I know it's stupid, hurtful and hard, but you can't change everyone. Just learn from it and I'm sure you'll be a happier person! Good luck, my friend. :)

[ThisDudeHere]

Lost all of my friends at 12, newer really made new ones besides acquaintances, never had a girlfriend or even held hands with a girl, much less kissed or had sex. Spend most of the time alone. And the best and for me weirdest thing is that I have never had depression and not once have I cried over my situation. I don't know why. Perhaps I'm well accustomed to solitude and loneliness, perhaps I just don't give a damn. I dunno but I move forward every day and rarely look back.

But at least I can be thankful for having a good family, an awesome little brother, and normal school-mates and a few people here I can chat with. So yeah, not like my heart has been broken, more like it has been damaged and then held together by ducktape for a long time.

[springocelot]

Your story made my eyes well up. I was having flashbacks as well.

Even though I'm still with my guy for now, things just haven't felt the same as before. There were some things I found out that really changed the dynamic and when I brought them up to him he kept evading the issue. He didn't cheat or anything but it just sucks because we use to talk all the time of getting married but now I'm not sure. He said we'll talk about it again. We'll see.

I cried all the time just thinking how everything seemed so perfect then crashed all of sudden. Just last week in the still of my room, feeling lonely I listed to "Yesterday", memories just flashed before my eyes and I cried... because the wonderful feeling I had that seemed like yesterday is gone.

[LostSouledGirl]

Awwwh :( I'm really sorry! I've gone through the exact same phase not too long before his disappearance. I kept crying and feeling depressed, but I only realized I was just exhausting myself. Sweetie, you are wasting a good energy, and I know that you want to pull yourself out of this painful situation, but you can't, because that's how I felt. Believe me, if it causes you pain, cut it out of your life. I wish you all the best and for you to find happiness. <3

[starlight124]

In high school, I dated a friend who seemed like a really nice guy. As soon as we started going out, he started acting depressed and was just so miserable to be around. And yet whenever he royally screwed up, I gave him another chance as he would pick up his attitude and be the guy I had met in the beginning, that is until it became unbearable and he 'accidentally' hit me during an argument. I lied to myself saying it was an accident but the next time when I tried walking away and he grabbed me to slam me against a wall, I knew it was time to move on. It was hard and terrifying, but after 8 months I left him.

My relationships from there on were so different as I realized there were signs to be seen about people's personalities changing like that.

[LostSouledGirl]

Oh my God! Abusive? I'm glad you walked out! That's seriously dangerous! Just be careful who you give your heart to, sometimes we just do it, we tend to ignore all the red flags... I hope you're doing better now. <3 thanks for sharing! Be happy! :)

[Unit1]

I have neither heart nor soul. You can not believe me (except I own a heart in my body, which is either corrupt or dead and still beating) but I'm telling you.

In fact I just had a depression for like hours going on. Thought I went through it once and for all? Thought I could combat it like I did earlier? Well, no. Depressions are as strong as emotions and they conquer the human mind. If there is only one reason I would love to die, then it's because of depressions. That sums it up.

No matter how you try, depressions are powerful, mighty and psychological deadly.

[LostSouledGirl]

I'm really sad to read this is how you feel. I do not expect you to get out of depression overnight, but believe me, you can get yourself out of that dark depth. Do you want to share your story? You can do so by either posting it here, or feel free to message me. I hope you feel better soon.

[Unit1]

Not worth to mention my stories. Once I am past them I hope for them to not to resurface again. But thanks anyway!

[LostSouledGirl]

Well, I hope someday you'll come back to the post and say; "I'm finally happy." :) good luck to you!

[Unit1]

Thanks, I'll try to keep that in mind. Take care girl.

[Anonymous]

I dated this guy for 8 months and I fell in love with him. He fell in love with me too. Only he had a bad habit which was flirting with other girls. He couldn't stop acting like he was single. I tried to leave him because he kept hurting me but he beg me to forgive him cried and told me to stay. I took him back three times. He said he only want me no other girls. Then the day after that he told me he doesn't know what he wants anymore. he doesn't want to hurt me anymore. He can't commit to me. I begged him lets work it out. He said no he just wants me sexually exclusive now. It broke my heart on how many times I took him back and now he wouldn't even take me back. I still want him sadly but we haven't talk for two weeks after I wrote if your sister dated a guy who flirts with other girls and she's hurting would you be happy to see that? I hope u change to a better person one day. And now I'm missing him like crazy with no contact :(

[LostSouledGirl]

Awwwh! Held your head high, girl! Guys like that are a big NO NO, they always go like "They're just friends, you're the one I want," BLAH BLAH BULLSHIT! I'm really sorry he led you on. Be glad it ended now, better than later! I don't even know how to comfort you, but believe me, it'll get easier with time as you'll know he's nothing but an idiot who likes to play games. Take care, girl. :)

[fenixx0083]

This one girl I had been dating for two years accepted a marriage proposal from some guy she had only met three days prior.

Another just got meaner and *meaner* over the course of two and a half years before finally attacking me in my sleep and then ducking one of my so-called friends.

And yet another got it stuck in her head, for reasons that are a perfect mystery to, that I was cheating on her and wouldn't let it go until I left... and then had the nerve to contact me like a year later to ask what happened...

I'm not very good at this 😄

[Scrambled]

lol... I would love to give a heartbroken story, but I wasn't privileged enough for love. All these heartbroken stories make me jealous "better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" anyway, I have no heart to break and I'm bulletproof. I think it's such a tragedy.

[LostSouledGirl]

Lucky you... Having to go through that is complete shit! I'm over it now, but memories sometimes strike like a motherfu*ker!

[Onyx277]

Yeah pretty much. It's happened a few times but the most recent time was just because I gave someone too much credit and thought they were a way better catch than they actually were. He wouldn't stop bitching to no end about how this wasn't good enough, that wasn't enough, etc. Got tired of listening to it, and I'm just really figuring out that he is a loser and not even my type.

[LostSouledGirl]

I'm glad you got yourself out of that mess. No one wants to be in that position where they feel like they're not enough, or even a bit worthless. Some people have issues with themselves, and they let it out on people. Good luck :)

[Onyx277]

Oh I know. I mean I have been with some pretty stuckup people and none of them ever said anything like that. It took a good 7 months to realize that it wasn't worth it.

[Anonymous]

I've been having a relationship with a guy for over a year. We're perfect for each other: life choices, humor, goals, everything you can imagine. Thing is, we live apart. We were making plans for living together in 2 years, even getting married. everything was perfect... Until he decided that a long distance relationship wasn't fair to him. He told me he found a girl and that it wasn't fair to leave his heart "trapped" in an unphysical love. So yeah. My heart is broken.

[LostSouledGirl]

I'm sorry to know this... It's time for you to move on, too. Love shouldn't only be "physical" but people do differ... Be careful who you go out with in the future, you do not want to waste your time over someone who realizes he can't last without a "physical" love, a year later... Good luck and be happy!

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you, and you too!

[PT1911]

Posted this a few times on the here, but it essentially summarizes the relationship perfectly.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G-Bn_kD6QN4

She knew exactly how to keep me being her emotional tampon. It was emotional abuse, tricking and manipulating me every step of the way.

[den1219]

A girl I met online.. we were going really well till the 2nd date.. Apparently she got interested in someone else and chose him over me although that guy had no interested in her :/
We only knew each others for couple weeks but I instantly fell in love with her. Letting her go was really difficult and painful. Thinking that I could never see her again, I couldn't really go to sleep, and it was my first time taking sleeping pills to fall asleep D:
Now, it's all over and I'm very happy atm :)

[Neckbones13]

I was molested as a child.
Mom died of cancer when I was very young.
Aunt slept with old boyfriend.
The guy who did love me and wanted to marry me I let get away.
I'm stuck in dead in job.
My brother goes back to hospital for another surgery.
People at my church hate me.
Strangers laugh at me because of my weight. I'll never get married or have kids. The list goes on.