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Derek Chauvin Verdict
So then... It's been only a few minutes since the verdict was read out in the case of Derek Chauvin. If you're not already aware, the verdict is guilty on all charges. Second-Degree Unintentional Murder: GUILTY Third...
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Xper 6 Age: 45 My partner of 5 years has stayes on the couch , it hurts?
We have been together 6 years in August, it has come to my attention the last few years that he stays on the couch mostly and only comes to bed when I make a deal of it , almost like he has too even tho I have always made...
Anonymous
(30-35) Dating in your early 30s? What's your advice about it and how do you get over feeling lonely at times?
I'm a single, European female in my very early 30s, and I haven't had a significant relationship since college. I broke up with my then boyfriend because he did not agree with my career path - I was preparing for a career...
SEGRA
Xper 3 Age: 36 What is more important to know if someone is attracted to you: Verbal communication or body language?
I’m asking this because there I have seen a few shy people who have positive body language but don’t really talk much, but then I have also seen people who talk a lot but have negative body language. An example of...
Anonymous
(25-29) Looks Are More Important Than Personality
Okay, the title is a little facetious, but hear me out because this is a hot take, or a psychotic rant... I'm not sure, but you aren't the same person you were 10 years ago, and you definitely aren't the same person 10...
GnatSocks
Xper 6 Age: 33 Caught in the spiders web... the dumb bug
I'm sharing this for other men, and women as well, so that you know what can go wrong, and that you know there is hope for your life when you fall into the wrong trap. It's conveyed from a male viewpoint, but certainly,...
Guys does eye contact really works for you?
Imagine you was chatting to a girl. She likes you or you may even like her or find her attractive. Then she looked you deep into your eyes and maintained complete eye contact. Does that make you a bit weak at the knees?...
Anonymous
(30-35) Need help with understanding my managers behaviour - is he just being friendly?
He recently got me a new internal job in January which is my dream job, higher paying and working in the same department as him - which means he is no longer my manager but he has been for the past year. He told me he...
Anonymous
(30-35) Learn to accept Failures
Did you know? Thomas Edison made thousand unsuccessful attempts at inventing the light bulb. Once a reporter asked Thomas, “How does it feel failing thousand times?” Edison replied, “I didn’t fail thousand times. The...
mstranger
Xper 4 Age: 29 Is it normal to feel insecure about a new relationship when you look back on past ones?
My current boyfriend literally lives a half mile down from my ex. Last night my mom & I were talking about her troubles in her relationship & I was thinking back to my ex, because a lot of how she was feeling I felt while...
Anonymous
(30-35) My Story, Learnings and Cool Stuff
Everybody I believe has a lot they might have learned and lost during the COVID hit time period and lockdown. I am writing about my such story and things I learnt which can be useful. The text below has the story,...
ascienceguy
Xper 5 Age: 27 Is beauty in the eye of the beholder?
No. That's correct, NO! Okay, this is a simplification because not everyone will agree on what is attractive...but most, and by most I mean the vast majority (~80% or more) what is attractive. Babies as young as 3 months...
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Yoda Age: 42 What Makes You Feel Whole?
I want to ask you a question, but it has a rather circuitous route (welcome to my mind; and I apologize in advance...) And it Begins with Algorithms YouTube is the most-used social media site across the globe. I use it...
PLEASE HELP: Does this man have a plan for me or is he wasting my time?
I'm 25, and in October I met a wonderful man Mark. I've dated casually after my recent breakup (1yr ago), but as soon as I met Mark and spent time with him it was like my entire world and everything I had gone through...
Anonymous
(30-35) We're All Just a Submarine: A Journey Through the Mechanics of Social Media
As I was lying in bed this morning, thinking about various things, something occurred to me. You know what we are, here, on the internet, on social media, or with any type of virtual, digital communication today? We're...
The Most Influential Black People in the United States of America (Final Part)
Today, on February 28th, 2021, is the final day of Black History Month in the United States of America. This is the fourth, and final edition of the series. Click on the following links if you want to see part three ,...
EnglishArtsteacher
Editor Age: 35 My Family's Personal Experience With Donor Transplant
I'm sharing this story because this is a subject very near and dear to my heart.... And because, April is National Donate Life Month. The Diagnosis My second daughter (now 22) was barely 2 years old when My husband's...
Why do American politicians glorify small businesses even though they cost as many jobs as they create and fail so often?
You hear politicians talk about how important small businesses are to our economy but if you look at the claims made, they are usually lies by omission. For example, yes small businesses create most of the new jobs but...
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Guru Age: 36 Catastrophizing thoughts (cognitive distortion):what it is and how to cope with it
Ever feel excessive stress and worry for a small nuisance, you know it’s nothing to be worried about but you can’t help but worry about it? Well, that is known as catastrophizing which is a type of cognitive distortion....
How to spot and steer clear of shady websites/apps
With the world becoming more reliant on digital technology as the years go on, there are some opportunistic individuals who take advantage of this ever growing digital age to make an illegal and or immoral profit at the...
