Search Results: shy or aggressive

Girl A - She’s quite friendly and has a nice sense of humor. She likes helping people but doesn't hesitate to ask for help either. She gets along with pretty much everyone she meets but isn't really popular. She's the type that cares about people a lot but is also quite easy-going. Seems like a sweet girl.

Girl B - She's seems kinda indifferent and/or relaxed some of the time but seems to take studying surprisingly seriously and she has a part-time job to boot. She seems a bit quiet but isn't afraid to speak her mind and also has other sides to her. Seems like a mature girl.

Girl C - She is often quite loud and confident but surprisingly shy on rare occasions. Despite seeming a little aggressive she gets on with people well (including teachers). She is more involved with her family than those her age and seems to not be as organized in terms of doing her
work than other girls. Seems like a rowdy girl.

Girl D - She may seem quiet but has a sharp tongue. She isn't afraid to be blunt about things such as what she thinks of people which may seem to be a harsh opinion but it is often a opinion shared by others. Due to this people who are easily hurt often fall out with her but it's just how she is. Seems like a down-to-earth girl.

-Background Info (skip if you want):
So I have known this girl PB (super cute and sweet) for almost a year now, but never talked to her much in HS. She's INCREDIBLY shy & would actually get scared of anything. She would pull her arms in tight or twirl her ponytail hair whenever she got nervous. It was frickin' adorable.
Anyways, I didn't see her but once since the end of school last year. Fast forward through a summer and 4 months of college to today. I came back during her gym period to talk to her again. Now she is SUPER friendly & open to me, waving as I came in and asking all sorts of questions later. This is weird for her because she's usually super shy. We talked along w/ her friends. I climbed up on the bleachers siting right next to her, touching leg to leg & arm to body (breaking the touch barrier) & she was perfectly fine. I went to her lunch and sat next to her too and also leg touched, which she was comfortable with. I DIDN'T put my hand on her thigh though bc I don't want to go too far & make her uncomfortable. The lunch ended and I got up to leave for home. So I said bye to her & we hugged, except she hugged me SUPER tight. No female "friend" has been as aggressive with a hug like that before. So now I like her and she *should* like me.

-Problem:
I'm 18 & a freshman in college, she's 15 & a sophomore in HS. I'd obviously wait until her birthday in Feb. B4 I make a move (AOC is 16 in my state). So the age and life exp. gap is a problem, I found this out the hard way w/ my ex (15 & soph. me 17 & senior) how immaturity & expectations of teen girls can sabotage a relationship. I also have my own problems of hostility towards others (read my bio) that I need to work on as an adult. In addition, I plan on my next relationship being the last one (I like monogamy and marriage) but I know if I pursue it won't last more than 2 years. Lastly, college requires a lot of dedication & I'm supposed to date college girls. Should I try to date her or not?