He did ask me to be his girlfriend pretty fast.
He kissed me first, wasn't exactly shy about that.
But as a boyfriend he's kind of passive. He is always keeping the messages or phone calls going, but he has said he doesn't like it that I never call him first.
He also will always hint at getting together but not outright ask. Unless it's a specific plan then he asks me if I want to go to the event, like a friend's dinner.
He is very understanding and caring. He always tries to make me feel better when I am upset.
I am usually the type to sit back and be completely pursued. My ex was like that but he was such a jerk! I was nowhere near an equal.
With my boyfriend I'm more of an equal. Or sometimes he will say "Why don't you ask to make plans, you know I want to see you"
It makes me feel... like he doesn't like me enough. I know he does care, or I wouldn't still be here. But I'm used to more aggressive man.
Is there a way to talk to him without making him upset or feel criticized?
It's nice to be treated as an equal person not an inferior being. But I feel out of my comfort zone :(
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