How to discuss my boyfriend calling me aggressive constantly?

[Anonymous]

He says I’m aggressive for everything and I’m actually assertive it’s frustrating. Even today like I’m at work I respond when I can. We’ve talked before about this and it went out his ear.

[The_Maphio]

It's kind of clear that you're the one wearing pants in the couple.
Personally I'd ditch the sensitive little beyotch, but you're not me. Try to talk it out, reassure him once, maybe twice if it happens again. But thrice... Never do things thrice. If the person we are talking about is remotely smart, he'll understand in two repetitions. If not, look elsewhere.

[jahaims]

Here is the definition of aggressive- pursuing one's aims and interests forcefully, sometimes unduly so. Here is the definition of unduly -to an unwarranted degree; inordinately. if you are contacting him in his opinion excessively you are by the literal definition being aggressive.

[Asker]

I didn’t contact him excessively...

[Asker]

Also I am aware of the definition

[Siren777]

You're not compatible nor see eye to eye. I would leave him as he will always find a problem and say the same thing. I honestly hate text as it's always misconstrued but if you still want this guy. Talk things through and find a solution.

[Changiis07]

You do sound a bit aggressive. It get misunderstood through text, maybe you can say it in a nicer assertive way

[Levin]

haha, he knows how to handle you, miss aggressive ;)

[boggboss]

Your responded passive aggressively like u wanted to have a argument

[slatyb]

You aren’t compatible. End this.