What to do about an aggressive boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

So we were playing the Wii and he was getting all mad because the control wasn't working and he kept hitting it. Then he snatched it all aggressive off the sofa. He gets aggressive over little stuff.

[Emiku]

Wow! If he does that, imagine what he would do to you if he got mad at you? He sounds mentally unstable, you should run girl. If I had a man like that I would be concern about my life. He's truly disgusting

[Asker]

I should hope not, it looks like a childish temper tantrum.

[OmcSketch1]

I saw in a response to someone you mentioned “I hope he doesn’t hit me”. If that’s a concern then you know he’s too aggressive and it’s time to leave before it gets bad. He needs to grow up or remain single but this is NOT a good relationship to stay in please consider yourself worthy of a better man.

[Asker]

Yes like it's over something little like we've been together for years and he hadn't done that.

[Godsvengeance]

That kind of aggression shows a lot of self control which can be very dangerous with a man. I think you'd probably be best to move on as he isn't mature enough just yet

[Asker]

It feels like a childish temper tantrum

[Godsvengeance]

It feels that way because that's exactly what it is. When a child does it, they generally aren't strong enough to cause damage or harm, but when a full grown man acts that way, it can be dangerous and he should be avoided

[Asker]

Yes like everybody I'm around don't act like that. I see that people get mad, I do too but over s remote no

[Godsvengeance]

Yeah, please be careful with him and break up with him before that aggression turns toward you. And don't believe him when he says he will change or stop. If he is still acting that way at that age, it's very unlikely he will stop

[Jackblue]

One question, does he have issues with germs aka does he wash his hands a lot?

[Asker]

No he doesn't

[Jackblue]

Then yes he probably is violent and you should leave him.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I would break up… Just imagine his aggression if it’s towards you. I would beware of that behavior because he if does not control his anger, he could let it out on you one day and that would be a whole other story.

[Asker]

Ikr I'm like it's just a Wii remote, I don't get THAT frustrated

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Yep… So, I would just try and be careful.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Mess96]

You need to break up with him

[Asker]

It's just new to me, I don't like being around aggressive behavior like that, it's uncalled for.

[Mess96]

Yeah I understand. No one does and it’s toxic. Chances are he’ll get worse and he’ll do something to you if you don’t leave him and cut him off

[UniquelyBasic]

You still have a Wii?

[Asker]

He had bought it

[UniquelyBasic]

In all seriousness though, his episodes of being aggressive are signs of something mentally he can't control and he could blow up on you at any moment. I would just break it off before the unthinkable happens.

[Asker]

I should hope he doesn't hit me but it's just a lot over little things