Most Helpful Guy
Because your boyfriend works for google, he is super kind, and seems like a cool guy. You dont find guys like that anymore. So she is thinking, screw you, she is going to take him so. he is all hers. Good luck, just the fact that she works with him puts you at a disadvantage, but in the end i hope you prevail.
Most Helpful Girl
you have every right to be upset.
By asking him to put a stop to her advances you are not being insecure, you are just being assertive yourself because it is disrespectful to you.
She is pushing it and by him not telling her loud and clear that it is not going to happen, he is giving off mixed signals to her.
Maybe he doesn't want to hurt her feelings, but he needs to realize that he is hurting yours, and yours should be more important than some random woman.
Talk to him and tell him exactly how this makes you feel and what it is you expect him to do about it.
I had a similar situation with my fiances Ex. she used to text from time to time asking how he's doing and stuff. He was usually just polite and gave a short answer back. So because he didn't cut her off, she assumed it was ok to invite him out for drinks. He asked me what he should write back to make it clear that he was not interested, so I told him to write "thank you but no thank you. I am very happy in my new relationship. take care!" and that was the end of it. She got the message loud and clear.