Search Results: advice on dating older guys

What I’ve Learned About Relationships

**Disclaimer: this is written from the point of view of a 20 year old, straight woman, whose goal is to be in a healthy, monogamous relationship with a straight man. This will affect the text but the text can apply to...

Lela247

Xper 5 Age: 28

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Other

Did anyone else's parent's teach them this?

My mom said never to expect a man to take care of me. I started seeing white little suburban girls around my age trying to lock down wgite guys from well of families or in premed. My mom said NOT to do that or get onto...

TupacsDaughter

Xper 2 Age: 26

Girl's Behavior

Do you ever feel like Gru from Despicable Me?

I have been drawing several GAG girls to me like minions to Gru. While I can be the evil overlady, it is funny the number of GAG girls that want to PM and ask me for honest opinions on sex, family, bfs, drugs,...

wingattebaby16

Guru Age: 31

Relationships

Do you act childish when you’re in love or dating?

I’m with this guy and I feel like I act so childish. I send him cute msgs and drawings and send him cute memes but I feel like I don't know like is that weird? I’m 25 and so is he but I don’t feel old. I don’t understand...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Advice to handle loneliness during the holidays?

It's that time of the year I dread again. It's that time of the year I hope will be different next year. I'm the oldest in my family and I've always been the wayward weirdo/single guy. I'm successful; educated, good...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

My mother is against the age gap between me and my partner. what should I do?

I’m 21 and my boyfriend Is 42 years old. I’m madly in love with him, but my mom is against my relationship with him because he is twice my age, he is divorced and he have two children, that he is raising. The fact that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Red Flags From My Last Relationship, Part Two

This is a late follow up to the my take I posted above. Another user, @errorgoodnameunfound inspired me to make another. My last relationship ended about 6 months ago. Now that I've healed a lot better, I revisited things...

1truekhaleesi

Editor Age: 29

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Dating

How to stop falling for every guy who gives me a bit of attention?

I'm a 21 yr old gal. I've never had a boyfriend, I haven't even kissed a guy. I'm quite attractive and many guys try to hit on me but I have a problem, I suffer from excesive sweating since I was 14, so that's given me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

How do I pick up guys?

Just got out of a relationship semi recently. I want to go back to my old ways, i. e. getting that good D on the regular. Back in the day I had 4-5 guys in rotation. I would go out and guys would be all over me, I really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Guys over 30, why are you so averse to dating women your age?

I’ve always been attracted to men my own age as I always felt that I had more in common with them however, ever since I’ve been old enough to date I’ve had my mom, grandmother, aunts and all my friends telling me that I...

silvermoon84

Yoda Age: 42

Girl's Behavior

Looking for online dating advice?

So I've spent a few years on online dating sites and despite my efforts I get responses to messages I send extremely rarely. I've tried in depth descriptions on my profile as well as simple ones, I have a nice picture (s)...

ForteExe

Xper 7 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

(Part 2) Why don’t guys my age or 1-2 years older like me?

Link to part 1 is below and I appreciate it for any good advice. After he gets his food he sits at the condiment station for a while and glances at me and then sits at a table and looks at the tv but then looks at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Age gap-- thoughts?

I've been dating a guy almost a year now who's 10 years older than me... everyone around me has been surprisingly supportive of our relationship and I love him to death but sometimes I worry if this is crazy or it's just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why are black men such man-babies?

I'm a 29 year old black woman. I feel like it's time for me to settle up and start a family, and I would love to do so with a beautiful black man.. however. All the black men I meet, they always end up being nothing, but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Sister dating her old friend?

Sister had a friend from school. He a little strange and shy guy and with no friends.. my sister was kind and so she decided to take him to her company, he told her that he is a gay. So sister treated him as a friend....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

What do I do about this guy /: ? What are guys thinking when they say "I dont want to hurt you, but..." ?

Sophomore year (16) I met this guy (19) at my first job. We had a mutual love and chemistry for each other. We would try to go on breaks together and cuddle, he was like an older brother that I could talk to. There was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How to Get a Girlfriend (as Requested by the Guys!)

This myTake was recommened the most in one of my recent questions, so I'm going to cover it for all the guys who might appreciate it. Note I took about 20 websites of info, personal experiences, and peer advice and threw...

just_a_potato

Guru Age: 23

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Dating

Just recently found out the guy I’m dating has a 6 month old... advice?

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He just told me that he has a six month old. Apparently she lives in another state with her mom and he hasn’t seen the baby in 5 months... for whatever reason I didn’t ask. He is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

IMPORTANT DATING QUESTION. SHOULD I MOVE ON?

So I have been talking to this guy for about two months and things are going well. He’s nice, shows lots of PDA outside of our private time, and is all around everything I have been looking for. We hang out once a week on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

IMPORTANT DATING QUESTION. WHAT DO I DO?

Anonymous

(25-29)