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I don’t want to brag or anything like that but all my life, I’ve been told I was an underachiever when really I tried so hard to succeed in school, being social, being healthy, etc. I always wondered why I couldn’t become perfect. I wouldn’t fail but I was just an average joe and nothing scares me more than being average. Finally, I get an answer to all my problems and that’s ADHD. I could never focus in school. I could never focus in conversations and just zone out. Now, my life has started getting better with what I like to view as a second chance with medication and if I got this far with this disadvantage, I know I can kickass with treatment. Months pass by and I do start performing better at school, I start engaging more with my co-workers who viewed me as the “weird kid” thanks to my impulsivity. I work full time at school and work but I can’t seem to balance studying, working, and being an enjoyable human being for others. My parents can’t support me financially and I can’t fail in school. After every solution comes more and more problems, what would you do in this situation? Without money, I can’t afford my share of the rent and my diet and without grades, I’ll be stuck being a soulless cashier with “Life is Good” by Drake, Future playing in the background as my thoughts skewer towards regret and anger of not discovering this earlier. I am 18 and need a year and a half left of school. College is my option too. Thanks in advance!

Here is the sad thing. I came from a broken home, I never knew my real father, And the person i knew as my father was evil, sadistic, and violent, not to mention being a pedophile. I never found my real father in my life, though i did find his grave. Statistically only 7% of divorced mothers support having equal shared custody and parenting. That means that there are 7% of mothers that actually want whats best for their child and love their child more than they hate the father. Of course i am not talking about being ok with abusive dads being in the children's lives. Thats never ok, but the percentage of abusive fathers in divorces is less than 5%. Most of those mothers would rather use their children as a paycheck from the father, as well as the government.

In the US 50% of marriages end of divorce, Of those divorces 90% are initiated by the woman, and shocker, its not abuse, its boredom, or they could not commit. Of those divorces 93% of children are left with the father being reduced to a visitor. Its scary.. And here is the worst part of it, Single parent homes, or homes where just the mother is present produce the absolute worst results.

Statistics

63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.

90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.

85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)

80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes –14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26)

71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)

The worst part of this is i have no idea how to solve it, because there are definitely deadbeat dads out there.. The overwhelming majority are not, but they exist..

https://thefatherlessgeneration.wordpress.com/statistics/