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I am very heartbroken right now.

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend before. Meanwhile, I am watching most of my peers get married and/or have kids of their own.

I seek a woman who has never had her first love and has never had any boyfriends before, especially from her youth.

I just recently was crushed. I went on a date with this girl (17) last weekend who met my criteria. We talked for a month online before meeting. The date only lasted a few hours and I wasn't her type. She ended our date, and not only did she not want to be friends but she cut me off completely.

A year before that, I traveled to see this 18 year old girl who also met my criteria and she didn't think I was her type either. We talked several months every day before we met. Sadly, she is now engaged to some new guy.

I feel like just giving up. I am tired of starting over. I feel it is already difficult to find a woman who meets my criteria as it is. I don't know what to do.

I always wanted to have a girlfriend, a wife, and a family of my own. I feel this will never be a reality.

WHICH ONE WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE AS YOUR SERIOUS, COMMITTED GIRLFRIEND?
The follow-up question to the one from two weeks ago. You get two women to choose from.

Option A is a girl you find out is named Alicia. She is flawlessly beautiful and has a nearly perfect body, like a fictional character rather than someone who's actually real. Easily can be considered a Nine, if not an outright Ten. She's 5'10"/178 cm, a college athlete, a "master at sex," and works hard to maintain her figure. However, she is very superficial and a perfectionist. She is very hard to please, conceited and only thinks of herself, and expects you to live up to her lofty, high standards at all times, or she will dump you and publicly embarrass you while doing it. Commit to her lifestyle, or you're gone.

Option B is a girl you find out is named Bodhika. She's not what you'd consider physically attractive, at all. Whatever your personal standards are, she's halfway towards the opposite of them. But she could maybe be "good enough" as far as looks go. She's 5'5"/165 cm, has small breasts, narrow hips, a small booty, and is slightly overweight. She is studying to be a doctor. She has noticed you around the neighborhood and really likes you. She's kind, sweet, affectionate, has a really good sense of humor, quite intelligent, nonjudgmental, and accepts you for all your flaws and quirks. You might even have some hobbies in common, as well. You'll likely just never find her to be physically attractive (unless she undergoes extensive cosmetic surgery, which she is unwilling to do).

Which girl do you pick? The 10/10 with high standards, or the 5/10 who accepts you as you are right now?

Inspired by @siseñor girl's question.

This girl (20) would drive 2 hours to see me (25) every weekend for 2 months, so she really liked me. It was always a really good time. We bonded right away and went on really fun/sexy adventures (stripping her naked and eating her ass on the beach) and a few dates. But I didn’t treat her like a girlfriend. I never called her, asked if she got home safe, snapchatted her, sent good morning texts, no relationship talk, but we texted everyday. It now feels like I was leading her on, even though she drove 2 hours to see me. Playing her was never my intention because I liked her too.

She recently started playing games so I called her out, she got mad, a brief argument happened, a few days later I kinda tried to make up for it, shortly later I was ghosted after saying “if you’re down to keep things going then so am I. You gotta admit it’s always a good time.

It’s been two weeks since the argument and a week since she ghosted me. Should I send her “I get it. There’s a lot of things I wish I did but it’s in the past. Our shenanigans were wild. Hopefully you find someone who isn’t two hours away”

If not, what else should I say?