Should I just give up on women altogether?

[Inthecraphole]

I am very heartbroken right now.

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend before. Meanwhile, I am watching most of my peers get married and/or have kids of their own.

I seek a woman who has never had her first love and has never had any boyfriends before, especially from her youth.

I just recently was crushed. I went on a date with this girl (17) last weekend who met my criteria. We talked for a month online before meeting. The date only lasted a few hours and I wasn't her type. She ended our date, and not only did she not want to be friends but she cut me off completely.

A year before that, I traveled to see this 18 year old girl who also met my criteria and she didn't think I was her type either. We talked several months every day before we met. Sadly, she is now engaged to some new guy.

I feel like just giving up. I am tired of starting over. I feel it is already difficult to find a woman who meets my criteria as it is. I don't know what to do.

I always wanted to have a girlfriend, a wife, and a family of my own. I feel this will never be a reality.

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[BeenThereLovedIt]

Your expectations are unrealistic and insulting. You will never find that girl.

In the meantime, you are passing up great women just because they have the capacity to love and don't see sex as a purity test.

Any girl you meet who is 27 and has the same expectations of a mate as you do is sure to be a psychotic bitch. I kinda hope you do get what you wish for. It will undoubtedly be ironic.

Seriously you are missing out on a big part of life because somewhere along the line someone convinced you that purity actually means something. It doesn't, except the aforementioned psychological issues associated with unreasonable belief systems.

[Inthecraphole]

It is more so who she shared her heart with more so than it is about her sexual past. I want a girl who is a virgin in her heart, who has never had her first love or had any romantic bonds with guys before.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

That's impossible. It's simply not a realistic goal. It's not impossible, but the odds would see you 99.99% chance of dying a single virgin if you stay on that path.

[Inthecraphole]

I just hope I find her. Although lately, I haven't had the desire to look because of my recent rejection.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

well yeah, you are creeping on girls much younger than you, barely legal adults, and one not even an adult by US standards. Picking up 17 year old virgins... that window of opportunity closed for you around the age of 21. You've already over-shot your opportunity, so just give up and realize people are people, and virginity / past relationship status doesn't mean anything really.

[NetSapien]

Brother, if you don't adjust those expectations some, you're gonna find yourself on a long ass journey.

I respect your preferences, I think they're worthy really, but unrealistic. You've got to set more realistic standards otherwise you're the only that will suffer from it and your best alternative would be https://replika.ai/

[Anonymous]

It depends what you look like.
A hot guy could be homeless and still get a girlfriend. A less attractive man will always struggle to find real love and acceptance.
We all have the option to work on being more attractive, or date unattractive, very overweight women, get a sex toy, or just don't bother with women.

[Anonymous]

Yes lots of guys feel the way you do, don't bang your head against the wall every day, forget about them, you'll feel better. If there is such a thing as destiny (which I doubt) the girl of your dreams will suddenly appear, but that's just in the movies.

[slatyb]

You are looking for a unicorn. Unicorns aren’t real. Your requirements are ridiculous and else minaye 99.9% of women old enough to date you.

[exitseven]

If you are looking for somebody who has never been with a guy before you might have a problem. Everyone has a past and to expect someone to never have dated before is not realistic.

[ElizaPam]

Yes dick is way better. Men come to you. Men fuck you and do things for you. It's great.

[Joker_]

You should