Does A Girl That Works At The Gym Like Me?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I've been going to my gym for some months now and noticed this girl always says good morning to me then has a conversation with me. So I have a conversation with her small talk etc. It was my birthday recently and I told her about it and she said happy birthday to me on the day of and basically asked me if I had a girlfriend and I said not yet since I've been busy with growing my business. Then she says that if I've been playing around etc and I'm like nahhh then she says when I go to the club if I'm all over the girls and I said when I go I always have a good time. Another altercation was after my workout we made eye contact as I was walking up to her and she was inflating a basketball but she asked if I knew how to use it she was playful and she was like "I can’t find the hole" so I showed it to her and we were laughing etc. Basically after that I asked for her number indirectly by her actually saying do you know how to turn off callers anonymously and I said yes go to settings etc and showed her then I pulled my phone out and said "test it and check" so she put her number in my phone and called herself and I texted her a couple days later and she didn’t save my number which I'm not at all mad because I didn’t exactly ask for her number and didn’t expect her to save my number. Do you think she could be interested in me or just being friendly at this point because everytime after my workout we always talk for 5-15mins and talk about our past and we get to know each other I know she's very busy with 2 jobs etc so I know she might not be available to date right now and I dont want to overthink this. lol very inexperienced with this whole dating thing always been to myself focusing on myself any advice is much appreciated thank you 🙏

[Juan_Curious]

Let's see... The flirting process is the following:
1) Several men give an initial step to a woman. This can be starting small talk, p. ex.
2) The woman gives also a step to those men she is interested in. This can be maintaining a conversation with them.
3) Those chosen men give another small step, getting to present themselves better to her. This can be creating the circumstances so to have a walk or a coffee with her a way that might seem improvised.
4) The woman gives another step selecting some few of those remaining men. This can be by following you to that improvised walk or coffee after the gym.5) Those few remaining guys give another step. Which can be inviting her to a date.6) The woman chooses even lesser, just 2 or 3 guys to date.7) Those 2-3 guys give a final step. Which can be inviting her to watch a movie at their home, etc.8) The woman chooses one of them. The problem is that you are still at the phase 2... where she has accepted your invitation for small talk. If you manage to give the second step (phase 3), creating the conditions for an "improvised" walk or coffee (without being a date) and you get accepted by her, then you'll be sure that she is open to advance to the next steps, too.

[Asker]

💯🙏 definitely advancing thank you

[Vegasrunner]

You're making a couple of mistakes. For starters you should never confuse customer service w/ affection. If your a customer at her work she has to be nice to you, she's probably nice to everyone because it's her job. Second mistake is indirectly asking for her number. You kind of tricked her into getting her number and then you text her? It makes you look weak, like you're afraid to put yourself out there and risk rejection. What I would do if I were you is either
1) Call her and tell her you are into her and would like to take her out. You may want to say something like "I didn't mean to trick but I figured you wanted to give me your number anyway"
2) Ask her out in person next time you see her and make a definite date.

[Asker]

Definitely will do that.

[PrettyPriya]

Sounds like she might be. Seems like you two have quite a few positive interactions. If she is prying into if you have a girlfriend, I’d say there is some level of interest.

Ask her out! Just suggest lunch or something. Even suggest working out together one day?

[Anonymous]

Might just be friendly

[Avicenna]

Maybe

[In_Trance]

Nope