Girls, Does this girl at my gym like me or my brother?

[Dboy97]

So I need some help figuring this out. My brother and I go to the gym together every day after work. A couple days ago this girl started showing up around the same time. Over the last couple days I’ve caught her looking at us. I wouldn’t assume if I wasn’t sure either. For example today she was on a machine where we were behind her left shoulder about 20ft away and I caught her turning about 120 degrees to look right at us (the opposite side she would have been turning if she was increasing the weight or something) twice in maybe 3-4 minutes. This was only one of several times today.

What I need help with is how do we figure out who she’s looking at? We both find her attractive. Should one of us just ask her? If so how?

[RedStiletto88]

The times I’ve gone to the gym, I am aware of who is around me and while I might glance at the guys there it in no way means I am interested in them or I want to be approached.


Just leave her be.

[Dboy97]

So, like I mentioned before this isn’t glancing. I’m not the type to read into a glance. It was almost nonstop yesterday, and the day before as well. Like in the example I gave she literally stopped the exercise she was doing, turned her body and was just staring. I noticed it in the mirror without her realizing and she continued until I looked at her. She did another set and then did the same thing again. Also, there’s several posts on here from girls asking about how to approach their gym crush etc, so it’s a very common thing.