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I've known this guy for 15 years. He used to go nightclubbing with me back in the day.

But he's always been negative and just weird at times. He over analyses everything and keeps talking - making me feel suffocated. He always wants me to go to places where he wants me to go and wants me to stay out at all hours of the night (he knows I have a house to look after and I have to get up early for work in the morning during the week).

When I've dated girls - beautiful women and kind women. He has always been critical. He's always said they're "bitchy" or "stuck up". He has dated girls that are almost hillbillies and trailer trash but he always justifies his behaviour by saying "if I didn't date this one girl, she would've ended up with a total loser"

He also seems to be trying to get me to be how he wants me to be. For example, he said he would pay me $50 a week to study European cultures and towns and when I rejected the offer he said I was "pedantic" and "stupid" and "sheltered".

I don't talk to him now and haven't for a small while and I feel much more positive but tell me is it even worth keeping him in my life? Does he sound like a loser? Thanks

I myself have a lot of health issues. To try and list them all here: I had to heart surgery's for sunken chest. I can't sleep at night without medicine. I am allergic to almost every bug on earth. I have arthritis. I have mild autism. (Also called High functioning autism.) I have a bit of hearing problems yet I understand clearly what you would say as long as there isn't a lot of background noise. I have vision problems. I have petite mal seizures. They are stable but the worst they can get is forgetting where I am. But they can get worse as I get older. I have a aortic root dilation. (Aortic root: aortic root is the section of the aorta closest to and attached to the heart. Aortic Dilation: A dilated ascending aorta over the critical diameter of 50 mm is a risk factor for dissection or aortic rupture.) Possible Marfan's Syndrome. And I have Stickler Syndrome. I can take care of myself it's all in the inside not out. All this "stuff" has one benefit. Free money from the government. I can be the stay-at home dad. That's basically it. For me I wouldn't mind dating a girl with any of this. I find Autism/Aspergers, deafness and OCD attractive in woman. So would you yes or no? (Personality: see website 16 personalities. I am a ISFJ or defender.)