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I don't know what the dating world is like anymore. Frankly, I'm not interested right now. Most of my attention goes to getting ready for my career. Once I've become the best damned massage therapist I can be, and start making decent money, I'll probably have a tentative interest in dating, but sex and romance have just never been huge priorities for me.

Joining GaG, I expected sexual questions to be a major focus. There's all kinds of experiences regarding how the opposite sex feels and feels about things that I am ravenous to know more about. I did not expect to see so many people on here winging about how hard it is to find a SO.

I can't stand this "Nobody settles for average guys" rhetoric I've seen on the front page twice in as many days now. I don't think there's even an inkling of truth to it. I don't like to rate people, it seems dehumanizing, but suffice to say I've known a lot of guys who are married to women most people would consider to be way out of their league, and vice versa. Not just in terms of looks, but when it comes to intellect, finances and charm.

It just seems like a big ol' pity party, and I can't stand that. I'm not super-handsome. I'm an oddball. I used to be super-skinny, but my metabolism is slowing down, and I feel fat now. My frame is still long and relatively skinny, but I've definitely got a bit of a belly; that's super-attractive, right? Just some gangley, fleshy boulder? xD I'm almost totally broke, I live at home, and I have to pinch every penny I have, because I'm constantly worried my financial aid won't be enough to get me through my degree and certification.

And... I still get interested looks, and the occasional flirting semi-regularly. Am I crazy? Is it possible I'm just incredibly, devilishly charming?

Enough listening to me talk. Is it really that hard to get a date now if you put yourself out there? Do you think their standards are too high, or they're just not meeting enough/the right people?

Say what you want but I personally think if you're in a serious relationship, one of your responsibilities is staying attractive for your partner, especially if your married, and before you ignorantly skip the rest of this to write a hate comment I'll tell you why I think this, so hear me out. I think in a relationship, staying attractive to your partner is just as important as things like flirting, communicating and letting your partner know how you feel. I see way too many times where people would get married and think it's a reason to let themselves go, they think "Now that I'm married, I don't have to care about my looks because who do I have to impress?", well what about your Wife/Husband? Then they wonder why doesn't my Husband have sex with me anymore? Or why does my Wife watch porn instead of having sex with me? And in the worst cases they find out that their spouse has been having affairs, which I'm totally against, the #1 responsibility in a serious relationship is being loyal. Also, don't get me wrong either, this needs to work both ways, if your a slop yourself sitting on the couch watching Game of Thrones chowing down a bag of chips and you tell your partner to lose weight for you, they're eating salad while your pigging down McDonald's in front of them and you make them go to the gym alone of make them blow the dust off the old treadmill in the guest room, then you're even worst, and you need to be with your partner on this journey even if you're not fat yourself. I heard a man say "If a woman can be married for 10 years and still fit in her wedding dress, then her husband is one lucky son of a bitch", but granted this was some random guy I overheard and I couldn't find the quote on the internet so you can take that with a grain of salt, I don't know any quotes with the genders reversed but they'res probably one out there. One more thing, this does apply to both men and women.