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So my 30th birthday is coming up and I feel a bit down about it. One thing that gets me down is I'm going to be 30 and still a virgin. Not just that but I also never actually had a girlfriend. Actually I never even kissed a girl. This makes me feel like some weirdo or a loser.

I mean I have gone on a few dates before but not many, less then 10. I have had a handful of women ask me out on dates but for the most part I would just turn them down since I wouldn't be interested in them.

I only asked out a few women myself, less then have asked out me. But the thing for me is I find I have to get to know a girl and become her friend before I start to find myself interested in dating her. So by this point they usually just see me as a friend or they have lost interest in me or they were never interested in me to begin with. That and I am just horrible at picking up on when someone is flirting with me or is interested in me, I just assume they are being friendly.

I like to think that I'm a normal, nice guy. But just had bad luck. That and I'm a bit of an introvert so I have trouble meeting and opening up to new people. I wouldn't consider myself unattractive and I have had many women tell me they find me attractive so I don't see it as that. Whenever anyone mentions my past relationships or sexual partners I just lie since I find it so embarrassing.

I'm curious what women think of a guy like me. Do they see me as weird and a loser? Would they actually have an interest in dating a guy like me or no? What are just their general thoughts on a guy like me? Any advice you have for me to help me change this situation I'm in? Give me your honest opinion.

Girlfriend just got all mad at me then told me I’m not allowed to play video games... ( I’m 20 years old) because there’s things to be done around the house. Then takes a nap, so I figured okay I guess it’s being pushed until later, because she literally didn’t tell me anything I was meant to do. So I play a game of league of legends. What happens? She goes nuts about how she just told me a couple hours back I wasn’t allowed to play video games. I just don’t understand. When we first started dating almost 2 years ago I played like 10 hours a day which is unhealthy but she knew I played a lot and since we were long distance it was okay because i always talked to her on Skype while playing, now I’m playing maybe one 40 minute game a day at most but she has a fit over it. I’m also in college right now so the stress of her and not being able to destress sometimes sucks. I’m not an extrovert but I’m trying really hard to go out and about with her whenever she wants. I just get like 0 me time. I love her more than life and she loves me too but she treats me like I’m a child to be bossed around. She’s going back to New Zealand for a bit to see family and I don’t know if it’s time to end it or not. She treats me like shit sometimes but others we have the happiest times I’ve had in my whole life. Every time I try to talk to her about it she just tells me I’m being a baby and she’s not that bad. I had another post a couple weeks ago about her trying to sabotage my diet after I’ve lost 100 lbs and she just cheated on the diet all the time that we were on together and lost none. What do I do guys and girls? I’m having such a hard time, sorry I kind of vented and it became a huge post. If you guys have any advice or opinions please post them. Thanks everyone