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A few years ago I was in between jobs and had a lot of free time. I talked a lot to a girl on Tumblr until she decided to start working on a cam site. I followed her there, but after she left the site I stayed. I ended up meeting another girl who was working on the site to pay for college. We decided to end the sexual component quickly as it was making things awkward. A year passed and we became very close. We talked for hours almost every day on the site, in messages, and in Skype calls. She left the cam site just before graduation and I left with her. She trusted me enough to eventually give me all of her personal info. It's now been 3.5 years and we are still Skyping 2-3 time per week and talking a lot in texts. We know everything about each other. She is basically the girl of my dreams. She's more beautiful than any girl iv'e ever met, smart, funny, courageous, I can go on and on. The problem is, she has over 50 recorded sex videos online. Her name was exposed by a guy that harassed her in the past. If you search her full name, you can find everything. I know most of these videos will never disappear, and it's already been found by many of her friends, sister, and mother. I come from a very conservative family and they would never accept her past. As the years pass, more and more videos are posted. Every new video kills me a little more inside. I worry how this would impact our future. We don't live in the same country, so a real relationship will require complete investment. When i'm in doubt, we see each other in Skype and all the doubts disappear. She makes me more happy than anyone else ever has, and she understands me like nobody ever has. I'm not really thinking of ending things with her, I'm just curious what others think. Any input, experiences, or advice would be helpful. Thanks.

So my question is:
Would you date someone who previously worked on a cam site, if they were basically the girl/guy of your dreams?

Please be honest, ladies. Sure, all of these are legitimate reasons to leave him, but which one could you NOT deal with MORE than the rest? Again, this is a website for honesty - no judgment here. And, of course, I left out the big stuff, like hitting you, forcing sex, etc., which (as a Conservative) I think are all reasons that a man should get Lethal Injection. Again, truthfully, which one could you never deal with? If you can't choose just one, what one comes to mind or stands out to you?

A conservative guy will be loyal, raise kids correctly, will work to satisfy you in bed, and have good work ethic , good person, and won't fool around with other women. Most likely a Christian.

My stepdad is a radical Christian and usually a very bigoted person. Even though he doesn't act the part, he sometimes can be racist as well. Not in the classical sense like the Nazis or the Klansmen, but he's still pretty racist. He doesn't believe people make mistakes and he is almost completely anti-science. He thinks our generation is easily triggered, but he is easily triggered by scientific facts such as "humans are (social) animals." He claims to be a centrist (read: he's a centrist in name only), when literally THE ONLY left-wing thing he agrees with is on vaccination, and even then he is abhorrently anti-Gavin Newsom. His personality reminds me a lot like Donald Trump's, but with the dementia of Joe Biden's (not that I support either "president;" they're both fascist clowns).

In addition, my mom is a closed-minded idiot. She is at least tolerant of racial and sexual minorities, akin to Joe Biden and Kamala Harris. Not as bad as my stepdad, nor a staunch conservative (in my opinion she's a right-leaning moderate libertarian and capitalist based on her talking points; moderately anti-Democrat though, rather than staunchly like my stepdad), but still a very bad person. She has a neo-Koch-brotherist personality, she literally said she doesn't want me getting a job (especially as a cashier, when literally THAT is the only type of job that is looking to hire me) and thinks that my cons outweigh my pros. In other words, my mom doesn't support me like she says she "does." She worries about my SSI, and she doesn't want me to be ahead of my 21-22yo peers (and slightly younger, 18-20yo friends).

Had it not been for my stepdad, I would never have written those stupid racist social media posts and made unsolicited sexual remarks to girls in my teens, nor would I even have said the N-word in the 9th grade. I hear that word with a hard 'er' occasionally coming out of my brother's mouth. My stepdad is more tolerant of the N-word than he is of "freaking!"