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I met a guy online in 2018 from different country and 3 years older than me. He and I are working for bachelor progress and we had many in commons especially in traits and interest.

At first we talked like usual and I enjoy having conversation with him. We texted almost every day but there was one thing i never wanted to consider to make him as my online boyfriend: he only likes my face bcs it made him turn on easily.

Honestly i felt like he just see me as an object rather than a women, so i had to say we're only friends.

Day by day, this guy keep gained my attention. Not mention i was lonely, never involved in relationship before. But i wanted to experience in such a way so i had an idea to engage with him although we hold many different values but we are happily open to discuss about it.

We had break like 2 times, but i noticed none of us wanted to end our relationship. So we keep in touch until now, been 1.6 years. Although our chatting style maybe sounds odd, like we reply each other within few hours until 3 days gap, but convo never ends. You got what i mean?

He likes sex and i like commitment. We obviously talked about sex more than commitment. But it's perfectly fine for me, at least now. He seems like to initiate talking about other things too not only sex. So i really happy for seeing improvement of him.

Although i am not looking for commitment but i feel like he is getting serious with me, not mention he has been graduated and got a job. He once said he is currently working to meet me but i think he wasn't sure about his words.

The problem is I have so much worries and doubt. He easily forgot what we've talked before. He sometimes inconsistent with his previous words (ik people can change) and it made me disappointed. I'm afraid he just gave me false hope or he doesn't really need me. Ik i overthink too much, bcs i don't want to lose him.

Should i continue this relationship or end that way? I highly appreciate for people who wanted to give some advices.

Would it be weird to ask for a hug? Sounds a bit stupid to be asking this but as a girl I have never come across a man that initiates hugs or anything affectionate other than sex. Do they prefer us to initiate a hug instead? Do you guys find it awkward?

So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a couple months. It started out amazing, it was sort of a "friends to lovers" situation. We were very talkative and got comfortable around each other quickly. But, he's started ignoring me to play video games or watch tiktok a lot lately (it's been a few weeks now). Like, not texting the whole day then coming back the next saying some bullshit like 'sorry I was playing all day and I fell asleep'.

I would understand, I get being addicted to video games and tiktok, but he's been ignoring me even when I've told him I needed him or I missed his company.

We've barely talked the past week, and when we have, he's always initiated some kind of sexual topic that had us end up having phone sex or exchanging.

I feel like he got bored of me and is now just using me for sex. I confronted him, but he didn't really care until I suggested breaking up, telling me he loves me and that he doesn't know what he'd do without me.

I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt because he said he doesn't really understand 'feelings' and it's his first relationship, but I'm quite sensitive and I need someone to be there to show that they care.

I don't really know what he feels or what I should do.

Does he still like me? Should we break up?