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Let me state first of all that personally I DO think it’s okay for guys, including those with SO’s, to like other girls’ selfies on social media. And I would also like to clarify that I’m not talking about selfies of girls that are borderline pornographic, you know the kind I’m talking about. The kind I am talking about in this post, the ones that I think are harmless, I’ve included an example of (a guy I know’s fiancée got super mad at him for liking this pic of me on Instagram, and she made him unfollow me). The meme above is something a girl I know, who is married, posted on FB, but I don’t really agree with it (the part about selfies, let’s just ignore the stuff in the middle for now). Now, this girl is VERY insecure, is overweight, and is on her second marriage because her first husband only married her to get his Canadian citizenship, and as soon as he got it he started cheating on her. Now, her case is a bit extreme in terms of her insecurity, but I’ve met quite a few women, many of whom are very attractive, who get very jealous and irate if their husband or boyfriend, who, by all appearances seem to be very devoted to them, likes selfies of other women who are attractive. Do they have a point? Is liking other girls’ social media pics, or even just looking at them in their IG stories, and indication that they are attracted to these other women and are thinking of cheating? Or is that a bit irrational? I personally think it is. I think if a woman has a big problem with her man doing that, it’s a sign that she’s either very insecure, or there may be some underlying problems in the relationship, and deep down she’s afraid that he’s attracted to other women and might want to cheat. If so, I think those issues should be addressed in the relationship, because that level of distrust and jealousy, to the point where a man can’t like another girls’ pictures, is very unhealthy. But, that’s just my opinion. What do you all think?

Ok so think with me , anyone can be replaced, the world is full of men and woman and during our life’s we can have many relationships until you decide to get married. For me the getting married idea is very confusing because you are not choosing that person for being special you are just choosing it because the relationships that you had before didn’t worked or now you are old and worried about being alone or maybe now you have money for it but it doesn’t mean you are marrying someone special , doesn’t mean you will not be happy but

you are just marrying someone it could be anyone !

you will still being sexually attracted to other people after marriage but now you can’t be because you have a “special” person you still admiring other people and thinking about them romantically but now you can’t because you have someone “special”If the person is so “special “ it should not exist the rest of the world ! The other man and woman should be aliens to your eyes ! they basically should stoop existing and no one else would be able to attract you
But
that is not what happens...
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