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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. We have lived all over the country together, we have 2 dogs, a pretty sweet life, and share basically everything. He has always had a fairly low sex drive, which has been the root of most of our disagreements. As far as I know he has always been loyal to me. The sex has been more frequent in the past year. He has a friend from highschool that doesn't live in the U. S. About 6 weeks ago she FB him saying she was coming to town and wanted to see him. The messages were pretty friendly at first but got a little too friendly, and I only saw them because he asked me to do something on his computer and it was up on the screen. I told him my intuition was telling me something wasn't right. I told him it made me uncomfortable, and asked him nicely not to see her behind my back. Plus if theyre that good of friends he should want us to meet anyways, right? So then about 3 weeks ago were at his families reunion and same thing I go to listen to music and there is the FB convo, saying basically that they had hung out the previous week. I asked him and he admitted but said it was for like 30 min at a local bar, no biggie. Said he didn't tell me bc I would get mad. Also went while I was work. Later that day I find a text on his phone to her saying "I felt like we could have talked all night. The more Im around you the more I want to do things to you that I shouldnt." He freaked out and kinda cried more like obnoxiously pulled on my clothes on bended knee asking me not to leave. I left. He sent a bunch of crap text saying such cliche things like "I can't live without you" He showed up 3 days later at my friends house with a 4 page letter explaining his love for me. He says it was a mistake and a stupid attraction. I have been attempting to forgive him bc we have shared so much wonderful life together, but my insides dont feel confident in the relationship. There were no red flags. Im 28 and need something real.