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Today I ran across an old high school classmate of mine. This mother fucker called me ugly and bullied me so much for being unattractive that I really hated looking in the mirror.
He would even get physical.
So I saw this guy today and he started talking to me. He was bragging about going to Tuskegee University while I go to Howard University ( both HBCUs). How he was majoring in fine arts or art something while I majored in biology. He started asking if I had a boyfriend and when I said no, he said, "Damn Fish Eyes, still a single monster?"
I told him that I had to go because I was meeting with a publisher today (she canceled because her daughter got sick) to which my classmate was like, "oh shit. How about we go get something to eat and talk? Are you writing a book?" I clarified that I wrote a book, and he said, "fuck. You going to be rich, girl. How about we go celebrate? I will by you some coffee."
I declined him. I said, "you made my life a living hell in high school and you think I give a fuck about you now? Naw, my dude."
He got mad and called me an ugly bitch before walking away but I'm proud of myself.

my boyfriend came over yesterday because we had a little argument the night before and he wanted to see me and talk to me in person and make up. and of course we did make up after a while. and then it was all back to normal until this happened.
i know he has female co workers in his work place and he's friends with most of them and i dont really mind about it. and plus, they are mostly old.
so anywho, he showed me pictures of them altogether and then out of nowhere he pointed at this woman - she looks about over 30ish, and she's short, chubby, and unattractive.
and then he said "you look like her"
then i blew up and got so furious. he was confused and tried to calm me down but i was too fkn mad so tried leaving but he hugged me tight and wouldn't let go.
he asked "why are u so mad? i didn't say anything wrong"
and i said "because u said i look like her. thats how you see me. you think i look old and shit. i dont look like her!"
and he said "ok no you dont look like her, ok look maybe i said it in the wrong way, didn't mean what u were thinking."
and i replied "why do u think i look like her?"
and he said "i dont know... its coz you're both short and both of you are of the same nationality"
I got so annoyed at him and stopped talking. and then he got mad at me and started saying stuff about how I was selfish and that I got mad for nothing/over little things and how im immature and insecure about myself (which is kinda true) and that he drove all the way to my place and this is what he gets.. drama from me.
but anyway, do you guys think i was in the right to get mad about it? does he think im that ugly if he thinks i look like her? what the fuck does that even mean? was he just bullshitting when he said "ok no u dont look like her, i said in wrong way, didn't mean what u were thinking"? why would he say that when he always says that im pretty and beautiful and that he loves me everyday?
im still furious about it

Last year we had a class and his guy was into me, very obvious always flirting, but I wasn't totally into him. I've asked around and he's not a flirty type guy. Now i never thought he was unattractive but i was into someone else, and now I'm interest in him. But now this year, we have the same PE period but different teachers. So i was able to get his number a couple months ago, and I texted him, saying who i was but he said " i don't remember very well". So i left that convo figured he'd moved on. But our PE classes joined and he was like staring at me, like he was in awe. And he didn't look away when i looked back at him and even my friend caught him. So does he still like me? if so should should I try talking to him again? I can't really do it in person bc i don't see him that often, so what do i do?