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My husband has several female friends that he has had for many years. We lived together for almost 2yrs before getting married and I hadn't met nor heard of any of them until 3-4 months after getting married. I had no problem with him having friends of the opposite sex. But he started spending more time with them then me. Not all of them at once. 1 comes they hang out regularly for a month or 2 then they are gone and a new one appears.. Once I allowed 1 of them, who had no where to go stay in our spare room and when I seen a message where he called her babe, said either she had to go or I would. He told her what I said and SHE was gonna leave but he said if she left we were done. Am I wrong to feel that he should not be spending more time alone with the opposite sex then he spends with his wife?
Am I just being jealous or is his actions being disrespectful to me?

I’m 20, & I have an older Brother who is 26 we both have different fathers and since them my mom has remarried. my brother does not keep in contact with his father but I grew up a daddy‘s girl so my father & I’s relationship is very close.

When my brother speaks bad about his father my mom laughs.. but I got a quote tattooed on me that says “I carry your heart with me” because it reminds me of my father. he is in prison and I have not seen him since I was 7.. and when my mom saw it she said “she needs a tattoo that reminds me of her as well”..

My moms new husband is not a good provider, and can't keep a nice paying job.. and convinced her to put the last of their money into a towing business that put them thousands of $$$ in debt.
Recently I started seeing a guy who is 33 and when I tell my mom about how he takes me shopping, treats me well, sends me money for my books etc she will say things like “ That’s good, I’m glad you found someone like that, I wish I would have been smarter about the men I dated when I was younger, I wish I would could do those things but it’s all good, I’m happy“
I’m a bio Major and I don’t work.. so I rely heavily on my Student refund checks.. but my mom AND stepdad asks me for money EVERY WEEK.. even my older brother sometimes.. he dropped out of a school, I am going to school to be a doctor because I want to live a comfortable life.. I don’t want to struggle like them..

I noticed that she never asks my brother for money and if I say no I feel bad. My brother lives with my mom and stepdad while I am in college.. and she calls me crying asking for money for help with THEIR rent.. because my stepdad is inconsistent with his income, she pays mostly everything by herself and my brother does not help.. I feel bad for her, but I Also feel like it is not my job to make sure that she is not struggling and has what she needs. Do you think this is a case of jealousy or something else?

One time I said that my boyfriend/husband doesn't have to protect me and provide anything for me and a few guys liked it but the truth is that I'm jealous of women who have men who protect or provide things to them and I kinda thought relationships are worthless since men just demand s*x from women and if you date for your own benefit/ be traditional in any sense people will think lowly of you. While I did try to get with men in the past and I planned to/ was going to give them money I wasn't happy with these dudes and they were pretty unhappy with themselves and they took it out on me every now and then.

My older sister never seems to be happy for me when something good happens in my life and she gets low key jealous when people around us start complimenting me about anything from looks, career or love interests.
People have approached me to ask me why does my sister hate me so much. These people are neighbors, church members and family friends. She pretends that she is such a great sister to me in front of my brothers and our parents so they can continue to laud what a wonderful sister she is to her younger siblings.
Some of things she has done were: Ruin my babyshower by using it as a rivalry with her ex bestfriend. By the time that shower ended, my family was divided and my aunt and my cousins didn't speak to us for over 5 years. She lied to everyone including my niece at her sweet 16 saying that she didn't know where I was when all along I was waiting for the ride she promised she'd send for me. My niece balled her eyes out the entire night thinking I flacked on her.
There's so much more but it would be way too long to write down. She's toxic and brings me nothing but negativity and stress to my home. She offers no support whatsoever and it feels like she only wants to sabotage me any chance she gets. She has told me to my face that I am not her sister 3x. When I tell my parents what she does, they say that I am acting this way because of my husband and they accuse me of being boy crazy for putting him first before family. This infuriates me! She's toxic! I feel its time to cut her out of my life. Ain't no way in hell would I have let her stick around this long if she was a friend and not my sister. Am I wrong if I do? Would you so the same? I feel like if I keep her around she's gonna betray me so bad that I may flip out on her.