This is just a rant here about my 'cousin', raised by her grandmother and her husband. She gets what she wants, including from an aunt of ours that favors her (which is fine but she goes overboard expressing her favoritism). I guess she is that way from not being corrected, and being given what she wants.
It sucks because it's so close in my life. To where I was treated like shit by my mother and stepdad. My mother's family is jealous because I was my grandmother's favorite. While that side of the family (which is my stepdads family), some have always been funny acting which made me not want to be around much because I picked up on the little things people would say and do.
It's like I've been such a good person, at least tried, treated like shit and our lives are so different. Today is her 16th birthday party- my mother didn't even want to tell me happy birthday the day of mines.
I wish my life would have been better, better opportunities, better life, better treatment. I prayed for people that would love me and to see someone else get that but throw it all away, act like a bitch and not appreciate anything bugs me. I cried my self to sleep for the love she receives.
She hasn't dealt with not even a percentage of the shit I've dealt with in my life, including the only people you cared about that loved you dying, one after another. Our uncle died and she had an attitude the whole funeral thinking about herself.
There were times where my dumb ass mother wouldn't buy me new clothes I needed or would buy clothes too big or childish clothing. All the while she'd give her husband money from her check with no hesitation.