My husband's friend likes my selfies?

[Revenano]

I don't wanna make a big deal of this but I find it kinda weird. 99% of the pictures I post of myself on Facebook, my husband's friend likes them. I posted one today and the friend was the first to like it. If I do say so myself, it was a damn good photo. We are friends but we're not really that close anymore. When my husband saw that he liked it, he said "ooooh (friend's name) has a little crush on you!" Like in a teasing way. It was weird because I figured that if he thought he did, he'd be kinda mad. I asked him "so what if he does that doesn't make you uncomfortable?" Because I would be if it were my friend. He said no, he knows a lot of his friends have a thing for me. I just found it weird because my husband is definitely the jealous type and this is the first time he's mentioned anything.
My questions are:
What does it usually mean when a guy "friend" likes your selfie?
And would you feel weird about it if your friend had a crush on your SO/ if your SO's friend had a crush on you? Thanks!

[UnknownReflection]

Personally, i don't really take Facebook likes so seriously. They don't really mean anything. Besides, rationally, you need to be aware that Facebook is a public place. I've seen some people are really failing to see this and believe a Facebook account is a private environment which is entirely nonsense and a false belief. When you consciously post an image of yourself on Facebook, you giving consent that your respective material to be viewed by everyone from the people you know down to the strangers you know nothing about. Everyone has the right to like, comment and share your photo and there is no rule to indicate they can not save it either. It is a public place open to public access. Period. You need to be aware of this and take your actions and construct your feelings accordingly.

Furthermore, in direct answer to your questions:

-Liking Facebook images does not mean anything generally. It's just a random act. Of course every person can come with different intentions. Is there a chance he is stalking you? Yes! even if that's the scenario, you are giving him the space to do so. You shouldn't post images of yourself if you are worried about who follows your posts and who reacts to it or not. When you post a material, it's out there to the public eye out of your control and the reactions are expected. It's nothing odd out of the ordinary. And you are guys are friends anyway even if not that close, i have so many female friends and i [heart] the images they post of themselves. They are my friends and i love them, close or not. We have good relationships. But as i've said, when they post willingly, i can react to it however i want anyway. They have no right to even complain. If anyone finds it uncomfortable with the reactions, they are the one who should stop putting their images out there for people to view and react.

-The crushing scenario can be weird but it's not really an unusual situation. It happens often among people. Everything goes down to keeping the boundaries firm and everyone recognizing their places. People are crushing each other all the time but crushing is really a stage of fantasy and not attached too much within the reality. So as long as the limits haven't been crossed, crushing is nothing to be concerned about. And i'm going to highlight this point that [liking] your husband/wife's friends images or liking your male/female friend's images on a consistent basis is not crossing boundaries. It's a normal act. You post, people react. Just a social media basis interaction, nothing more, nothing less.

Additionally, something does not match with your husband's description. If he is the jealous type, he must be upset. If he isn't, there is two possibilities:

1. He is not really a jealous type. 2. He is confident that his friends might be crushing you, but they are not crossing boundaries so he feels everything is under control, therefore, he has nothing to worry about.

[markscott]

When I like a selfie of a friend of my wife's, it only means that I like the selfie. Of course, someone could have more meaning behind the 'like', than just liking the selfie.

[spartan55]

You are an absolute fool if you believe someone liking your FB pics means anything...

[Fuentes]

Sounds like u just wanna fuck your husbands friend, thanks for proving marriage is shit and your unloyal when ur husband stop showing u attention

[ItsAMeA]

It means nothing. He simply likes the picture.