Me and my husband have been together 5 years. He's just move to the USA a year ago. And has friends from back home.
He has 1 friend in particular that is always sending pictures of herself to him.
I don't mind if they were pictures that followed him casually asking what she's doing, and her sending those pics of what she's doing... or just normal reasons friends send each other pics, like special occasions or going out.
But the pictures she sends are different, it's her wearing really short shorts. Head shots from top to bottom. (Full body selfies) And all are of her by herself. They have friends in Common so you would think that she'd at least send group pics once in a while.
I have married male friends, and I don't send them pics of myself posing for full body selfies like she does. I feel like its disrespectful to their wives. And there's no need !
But that's just me.
Also I've known plenty of women who change how they view men once he comes to the United States, because they look at it as an opportunity. For $$
I also saw a message where he said he was going to send her money to help because I think her son was sick, which is fine as a friend, but it's still fishy to me.
Don't know if he did send it or not.
Let me know if I'm being close minded and what should I do? Should I confront him... and her?
P. S he never asks her to send these pics.
Let me know your opinions!!
He has 1 friend in particular that is always sending pictures of herself to him.
I don't mind if they were pictures that followed him casually asking what she's doing, and her sending those pics of what she's doing... or just normal reasons friends send each other pics, like special occasions or going out.
But the pictures she sends are different, it's her wearing really short shorts. Head shots from top to bottom. (Full body selfies) And all are of her by herself. They have friends in Common so you would think that she'd at least send group pics once in a while.
I have married male friends, and I don't send them pics of myself posing for full body selfies like she does. I feel like its disrespectful to their wives. And there's no need !
But that's just me.
Also I've known plenty of women who change how they view men once he comes to the United States, because they look at it as an opportunity. For $$
I also saw a message where he said he was going to send her money to help because I think her son was sick, which is fine as a friend, but it's still fishy to me.
Don't know if he did send it or not.
Let me know if I'm being close minded and what should I do? Should I confront him... and her?
P. S he never asks her to send these pics.
Let me know your opinions!!
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