Why won’t she send pictures?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend and I been dating and she won’t send selfies. But she admittedly sent selfies easily to other guys in the past. It was easy for her she sent pics every day multiple. But with me she won’t even send one picture. She says she’s never felt as loved, been in love, trusted, comfortable, confident with any other guy but me. She says I’m the best in every way, but she sent to random guys and her exes?

[_Maya_]

My only guess is that the past was a phase for her and she is over it. The important part is to respect that. People change and things that we used to do when we were with other people or younger aren't appealing anymore. That thrill of the attention has probably past and maybe she was never serious with those guys and views you as someone she can be in a serious relationship with. Maybe she looks back and views that constant sending of selfies for attention was silly (it is). Really tho that is her choice and right. I don't think it says anything about the way she feels for you as a boyfriend. I think it is more likely that she moved past that stage or behavior and finds it now to be something in her past.

[Anonymous]

It could be because that’s not really what she liked to do or what felt most comfortable doing, but was inclined to do it anyway. I’m in the same boat, been with my boyfriend for a couple years and have never sent him one selfie, yet before as a single person I sent them to other men.


Tbh he doesn’t ask and never has, but those men didn’t hesitate to ask me or try to set certain expectations by sending me selfies and making me feel inclined to do the same. It wasn’t me sending them on my own accord and I didn’t realize it until I found this relationship.


I’m not saying it’s the same case for her but very well may be. You’d be surprised what some women can do will do in order to stay with certain men, whether it’s selfies, sexting, dirty phone calls, any of that. It isn’t always a true representation of who they are though.

[BetaBucks]

Many women do the most for the guys that do the least, and do the least for the guys that do the most. You're the nice guy that's easy to please, so she doesn't feel like she has to try anymore. She'll start gaining weight and only putting in effort for her looks when she's going to be around other guys.

[Avicenna]

Only she knows why, but don't beat this dead horse and ruin your relationship.

[DishLady]

Perhaps she's learned her lesson about sending selfies.

[jahaims]

She felt insecure and seeked validation with other guys. She knows you are into her so doesn't feel like that

[Anonymous]

Talk to her about it I don’t know her