The man I'm talking to has (nicely) asked me if I could stop posting selfies on my instagram story because it bothers him that other men react to them and I automatically felt more attracted to him!
There are other situations where he asked me if i could stop calling my man friend at night and not to show a lot of cleavage when I go out and I also felt more attracted to him. He is never rude or aggressive when he asks me to do this stuff so it makes me do it happily.
I also feel attracted to the idea of "serving him", as in, taking care of him by serving him food and doing things for him.
I am trying to understand why I find it attractiveš¤ but I think that it's tied to the fact that I'm very attracted to the image of a strong masculine protecting man that is in control and in charge of the situation.
And "serving" my man would kinda reflect my level of appreciation and respect for him. We can't all marry actual kings but you can make a king out of your man/husband by treating him as one I guess š